Needing Someone To Do What You Want Them To Do So You Are OK

We all go through life wanting the people, places and things around us to do certain things, certain things in our favor, but many times we place the conditions of our wellness on things going our way and when they don’t we become unhinged or lost, it is not up to the world to adjust […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! When we graciously accept, both parties are blessed. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Thank those who walk with you on your journey. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! When you stumble fall forward not backward, that way you fall into grace. New blog goes up Friday, until then… SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Grace means that all of your mistakes now serve a purpose instead of serving you shame. SLAY on!

Living In Grace, Not Mercy

My life before was one based in fear. I was in fear of what was to come, I was in fear of what I had done and I was constantly asking for forgiveness and mercy when I had no intention of changing or following through on what I had promised. I walked with my head […]

Even Though You Might Not See It, Things Are Changing

I was speaking with a friend yesterday who has been going through a difficult time as she recovers from a trauma. She felt discouraged at her progress, and didn’t feel like she was moving forward fast enough. She had been feeling disconnected from her friends and family and had been afraid to leave her house. […]

If You Slip Up, Get Up

Before walking this path if I slipped while trying to work on a goal or practice a new lifestyle I’d throw the whole thing out. One mistake to me meant failure so what was the use in continuing? It would take days, weeks, months, sometimes years before I would try again. If ever. It was […]

Don’t React, Respond

My life before was one full of reactions. I reacted to everything around me and I reacted in record time. It’s like I thought I was going to get bonus points for reacting the fastest. As a result, many times, people got hurt or my rapid fast reaction was one from misunderstanding or my own […]

Deny Denial

When I was living in my disease I was totally in denial about how sick I was. I would tell myself stories about how it was everyone else’s fault or that things weren’t really that bad, they were. No matter what happened, or how bad things got, I never admitted the truth to myself until […]