Before stepping on this path I walked through a lot of pain, not always gracefully, in fact, often not gracefully, but more like the Tasmanian Devil spinning out of control, taking down anything and everything I could in my path. I would tell myself, as would those around me, that the pain was making me […]Read More It’s Not The Pain That Helps Us Grow, It’s Our Response To It.
I’ve always identified myself as a rule breaker. Someone who didn’t follow the pack and didn’t stay within the lines, and I did to an extent, but what I didn’t realize is that, even though I wasn’t following and staying in the lines that society told me I had to, that freedom I wore so […]Read More You Can Waste Your Life Trying To Stay In The Lines, Or You Can Live Your Life Crossing Them
Good morning SLAYER! Your negative thoughts may be the only thing holding you back from becoming who you are meant to be. Look for the good in everything, and let go anything that stands in your way. SLAY on!Read More Slay Say
Before walking this path the only thing I was embracing were the outside things I thought would fill me up. None of them ever did, not in the long-term. Sure I might get a hit of satisfaction or relief, but soon after that emptiness would creep back in. Back then, I couldn’t even fathom embracing […]Read More Embracing Is Acing
Good morning SLAYER! If life was meant to be controlled, it would have come with a remote. New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!Read More Slay Say
Before stepping on this path I was very addicted to control. Control to me felt like safety. When my world felt unsure, when I didn’t know what was around the next corner, or when I felt like people were watching me, wanting me to fail, I tried to control everything I could, even things I […]Read More Are You Addicted To Control?
This one was actually a special request, but funny enough I was just talking about this topic yesterday with a dear friend who lost his spouse a year and a half go and was feeling lost. I know for me, when I hit my bottom and finally reached for help I was faced with the […]Read More You Found Your Way Out Of The Darkness. So Now What?
I used to agonize over what I shared and how I shared it, if I was in a large group, I would think of each person who would be there and how what I had to say might affect them or possibly hurt them by them by hearing what I had to say. I was […]Read More People Hear What They Want To Hear
Why are we so averse to change? Well, we’re certainly not averse to the circumstances changing in our lives that we don’t like, we just don’t want to have to change to change it. Therein lies the rub. Change starts with us. In order for anything in our lives to change, we have to make […]Read More Nothing Changes If Nothing Changes
We all have them, those things in our lives that we just can’t figure out, or, we can’t solve because another person may not want to discuss or engage with us to find a solution, or things that are out of hands and out of our control and they can eat away at us. I […]Read More Living With Unsolved Problems