Slay Say

Good morning SLAYERS! Do not tolerate disrespect, not even from yourself. New blog goes up Sunday, until then… SLAY on!

You Can’t Open A Flower With A Sledgehammer

Well, I guess you can open a flower with a sledgehammer, but the result isn’t going to be pretty. That goes for life as well. We can force things to go our way, try to speed things up or manipulate them in our favor but most of the time we will destroy what is there […]

When People Only See Who We Used To Be

I have changed a lot over the past 13 plus years. That core person I am is still there, and always was, although she was buried under a lot of junk I piled on top of her, but the essence of who I am has walked with me, that is person I fight for every […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! What separates privilege from entitlement is gratitude. SLAY on!

Entitlement, Entitlement!

When I first started to walk this path, I had to give up a lot of things, make changes, leave my old way of life behind. The ways I used to deal with problems or cope with life were killing me, literally, and so I had to learn new ways, and even though I knew […]

The Living Dead – Numbing Parts Of Yourself And Letting Them Die Off

For most of my life I lived my life like the living dead. I was living a life, well, going through the motions, but was numbing our stuffing down those parts of me that were too painful or I didn’t want to face. I had done that for so long that it became normal to […]

Thank You For Being Exactly Who You Are

I mean that, and I mean that for everyone. Those who love and support me, and especially to those who may not. I say especially to those who may not because those people who I may not agree with or who may not support who I am or what I do, sometimes teach me the […]

You Have To Go Through It To Know What It’s Like

We’ve all heard, “whatever doesn’t kill you makes you stronger,” and that’s true, we learn from the tough times, the things that challenge us, from the mistakes we make, or, hopefully we do, it’s those times that we typically learn the most, I know I do. It’s also sometimes just about experiencing the lows so […]