Nothing Fear-Based Is Real

I spent most of my life living in fear. I wasn’t aware I was living in fear but looking back all my decisions were fear-based, there was the fear of not getting what I wanted, fear of losing what I had, fear that I wasn’t good enough, thousands of forms of fear I would conjure […]

Slay Slay

Good morning SLAYER! We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used to create them. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

It Starts In Our Thoughts

It took a lot of humility and work on myself to realize that I had a thinking problem. No matter what outside issue I used to get by, to numb myself or to try to change my feelings, my real issue was my thinking. That realization hit me like a ton of bricks. If my […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! We cannot change the past but we can start a new chapter. New blog goes up Sunday, until then… SLAY on!

Make Your Own Happy Ending

When we are kids, and I think especially us little girls, we dream of a happy ending for ourselves. I know for myself as a kid I lived a lot in my head and found fantasy much more appealing than reality, and sometimes I still do, so I dreamed up many happy ending scenarios for […]

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Good morning SLAYER! Boredom is the despairing refusal to be oneself. New blog goes up Friday, until then… SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Fear the boredom that comes with not learning and taking chances. SLAY on!

If You Wake Up Bored It’s Your Fault

When I was living in the dark, I would often say I was bored. I would say it like life owed it to me to entertain me. But without putting in any effort myself, I continued to live in a repetitious pattern that only had me spiral down deeper into despair. Life didn’t owe me […]

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Good morning SLAYER! Our job is to keep our side of the street clean, not to point out the trash on the other side. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

Non-Interference

Each individual soul is destined to complete a certain mission on their journey. Each of us should be allowed to pursue that destiny without being interfered with, but, that is not always the case. Many times we encountered people who feel they know better and try to instruct us or egoistically assume it is their […]