Immobilized By Sadness

I used to let my sadness immobilize me. I’d let it wash over me and take me out to sea, where I’d just float in my sadness until one day I’d wash up on shore again. I was out to sea with my sadness much more than I was on shore before walking this path. […]

Super SaturSlay!

Hey SLAYER! Saturday’s are now devoted to you! That’s right. Share how you’ve changed, challenged yourself, or overcome something in your life through STATE OF SLAY™ or the SOS community and see your story posted on stateofslay.com! Each SaturSlay will be a new post of inspiration from you! Send your inspirational story to carrie@stateofslay.com. Your […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Our greatest good is what we can do for others. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then…SLAY on!

Be A Conduit Of Good For Others

Before walking this path I certainly thought about the people I loved who were in my life, and I did enjoy doing good things for people, but I also enjoyed getting the credit for doing those good things for people, and, there were also times that I was doing those good things for people for […]

Growing Through Something Difficult

I’m all about changing the language I use every day to reflect a positive life and positive communication with myself. For most of my life, my default place was a negative space, I would tell people I was cursed and that’s why things were always going wrong in my life, or things were so dark. […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Every time you judge someone you reveal a part of yourself that needs healing. New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!

Blame-Saying Is Game-Playing

Before walking this path I spent a lot of my time pointing out the faults of others. I figured I knew how to fix everyone else’s lives, even though mine was falling a part, and like a runaway train heading toward a tunnel of death. But to talk to me, I know better. You were […]

Deny Denial

When I was living in my disease I was totally in denial about how sick I was. I would tell myself stories about how it was everyone else’s fault or that things weren’t really that bad, they were. No matter what happened, or how bad things got, I never admitted the truth to myself until […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Sometimes people around you won’t understand your journey, but they don’t need to, it’s not for them. New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!

Creativity Takes Courage

It takes a lot of courage to express yourself in a creative way. When we share who we are in a creative outlet we are vulnerable. We are vulnerable to criticism, judgment and perhaps not being accepted as someone who has something valid to offer. Probably more people than most never take the leap and […]