When I finally found the courage to ask for help, I was told I was going to need to get rigorously honest with myself to get well. Even thought those words seemed scary to me I was at such a low I was willing to do anything, so I of course agreed and set out […]Read More You Can’t Mend If You Bend The Truth
As we start the new year it’s a great time to do a check on where we’re at in our lives. To look at what we like, what we don’t, and to ask ourselves if we are happy with the consequences we are getting? As I have said many times at State Of Slay, our […]Read More Are You Happy With The Consequences You’re Getting?
Good morning SLAYER! Find a tribe that matches your vibe. New blog goes up Friday, until then…SLAY on!Read More Slay Say
Good morning SLAYER! You are not alone. SLAY on!Read More Slay On
I’ve talked a lot at STATE OF SLAY about feeling different, less than, feeling awkward and anxious in social situations growing up, and into my adulthood, before walking this path. It’s a time of year when there are many social gatherings, parties and family functions and I was reminded how I used to feel alone […]Read More Alone In A Crowded Room
Good morning SLAYER! Self confidence is a super power, once you start to believe in yourself, magic starts to happen. New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!Read More Slay Say
Believing in myself wasn’t something that came easy for me. I spent most of myself doubting my abilities, talent and worth. I may have started the day, or even a task or goal, with all the intention in the world of believing I could do it, and not just do it, excel at it, only […]Read More Believing In Yourself May Be One Of The Most Daring Things You Can Do
Now don’t get me wrong, it can be done, I’ve done it, back when I didn’t love myself, I did push love away because I didn’t accept it, or didn’t believe it, or felt I was unlovable. So, it is possible to push love away, but it takes an effort. When I started on this […]Read More It’s Very Difficult To Push Love Away
Good morning SLAYER! When you believe you deserve the good, you will find the good, work your way to the good and no longer the feel the bad is a place of comfort. New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!Read More Slay Say
When I was living in the dark, I wasn’t happy there, but it was what I knew, and where I felt comfortable. I was torn between being in love with my sadness and wanting to let it go. I didn’t know how to let it go, and I also was afraid to, because my identity […]Read More Does Feeling Bad Feel Comfortable?