You Have To Be At Your Strongest When You Are At Your Weakest

Now that may sound like an impossible task, but it is in those moments when we may feel we are at our weakest that we must dig down and found our strength. I know, in my life, there have been many times when I have found an inner strength I may not have even realized […]

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Good morning SLAYERS! We cannot become what we want by remaining what we are. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

The Stories From Our Past

This is a topic that has come up a few times this week. Negative stories we were told as children about ourselves or we believed to be true about us but were not. Things that adults say because of their own insecurities or illnesses that stay with us into adulthood. Those ideas that we carry […]

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Good morning SLAYER! Don’t call it a dream, call it a plan. New blog goes up Friday, until then… SLAY on!

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Good morning SLAYERS! If your dreams don’t scare you they’re too small. SLAY on!

Don’t Be Afraid To Be Great

Looking back, there were many times I was afraid to be great. In my mind I wanted to be, even in my heart, but in the moment there would be something inside of me that would stop myself, even self-sabotage my efforts so they would fall short of my abilities. I always had a brief […]

At A Rare Loss For Words

It’s very rare that I am at a loss for words. Anyone that knows me well, will tell you that. But I have just been taken aback by the behavior of many lately. For those of you that read my blogs regularly and have followed State Of Slay™ you know that I aim to look […]

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Good morning SLAYER! Know your worth. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

We Accept The Love We Think We Deserve

For most of my life I thought I was unlovable. I didn’t love myself, I didn’t even like myself, and so I never trusted that anyone who said they did. And, if someone did seem genuine it made me uncomfortable, and fearful that they were going to find out the ugly truth sooner or later, […]