Accepting Kindness

Many of us share our kindness with others. We give because we want to, because it feels good and because we want to make someone’s day a little brighter. But many of us have trouble accepting that kindness in return. We feel we aren’t worthy or deserving of it, yet we’re quick to see others […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Know your worth. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

Dark Horse Wins The Race

It’s always great when we have the support of your friends and family when we set out to accomplish a goal. It doesn’t always work out that way, and many times we can get derailed in our efforts because we let those around us influence our confidence or thinking that we may not be capable […]

Perspective: It’s Not All About You

We don’t typically see things how they are, we see things as we are, and we all have a different perspective depending on what we want or were expecting to happen. Ask a group of people to recount witnessing the same incident and you’ll get as many versions as there are people. We tend to […]

From Victim To Victor

Before walking this path I thought of myself as of victim. I felt I was a victim of those around and me and a victim of life. I truly believed that everything and everyone was conspiring to get me. And, my disease told me that I deserved it. I used the victim label like a […]

Know Your Worth

Before walking this path, I didn’t know my worth, in fact, I didn’t think I had any. Even when I found success, or was complimented, I didn’t believe I was worthy of it, and many times, I thought if someone was praising me for a job well done that they were lying and had ulterior […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Being happy doesn’t mean that everything is perfect, it means you decided to look beyond the imperfections to find your own brand of happy. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! One of the happiest moments in life is when you find the courage to let go of what you cannot change. New blog goes up Sunday, until then… SLAY on!

I Don’t Want To Feel What I Feel

I stepped on this path over 13 ½ years ago, and much of what got me to this path was not wanting to feel my feelings. At first it started with not wanting to feel bad, or different, or less than, disappointed, or unsafe, but as my disease grew, and I continued to stuff my […]

I Will Not Kick Myself When I’m Down

When I was living in the darkness, the moment I felt I was down, which was most of the time, I would kick myself even lower. That’s exactly where my disease wanted me, as low as I could go, and even as low as I got, I would still kick myself lower. I often held […]