Do It For You

You have to get well, or improve your life or self, for yourself. Doing it for someone else usually doesn’t work, unless you believe you are worth it. Many times I have seen and heard people say that they’re making the effort for a spouse, boss, child, or family member, but without truly believing that […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Someone’s approval isn’t necessary for you to value yourself. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

Know Your Worth

Before walking this path, I didn’t know my worth, in fact, I didn’t think I had any. Even when I found success, or was complimented, I didn’t believe I was worthy of it, and many times, I thought if someone was praising me for a job well done that they were lying and had ulterior […]

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Good morning SLAYER! Your decision to walk creates the road ahead. New blog goes up Friday, until then…SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Instead of dwelling on what went wrong, focus on what to do next, and spend your energy moving toward finding those things that are going right. SLAY on!

Just Look For The Green Lights

Everyone, at times, goes through periods where it’s hard to see the positive in our lives, maybe that lasts for only a few hours, a few days, or perhaps a few years, or more. I know, for myself, there were many years that I only saw the negative, and even when positive things did happen, […]

When You Don’t Speak Up, You Set Yourself Up To Blow Up

I was just sharing the other morning with a group of women I meet up with regularly that before walking this path I would never share how I felt. I often shared my opinion, especially if it made me look good, or smart, or better than you, but I never shared my feelings, my fears […]

Super SaturSlay Submissions

Hey SLAYER! Saturday’s are devoted to you! That’s right. Share how you’ve changed, challenged yourself, or overcome something in your life through STATE OF SLAY™ or the SOS community and see your story posted on stateofslay.com! Each SaturSlay will be a new post of inspiration from you! Send your inspirational story to carrie@stateofslay.com. Your light […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Every time you’re able to find the humor in a situation, you win. New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Every time you are tempted to react in the same old way you used to, ask yourself if you want to a prisoner of your past, or a pioneer of your future. New blog goes up Friday, until then…SLAY on!