I don’t know how many times when I was living in my disease I wished I could turn back time. Each day things got worse, my shame got heavier and my self-hatred grew. I remember not understanding how I had gotten to the places I found myself, and instead of taking action to find out […]Read More A Pickle Can’t Go Back To Being A Cucumber
This is a question I ask myself every day. It is a question that guides me, that opens my mind and heart, and, what lead me to start this blog years ago, what can I contribute to life? I was very blessed, when I began my journey in recovery, when I sought help it was […]Read More What Can You Do To Contribute To Life?
Being disappointed by the results of work I didn’t do could sum up years of my life in the past. I suffered from magical thinking, believing or hoping I would get the desired result just by wishing it to happen. It never did. I would get in my own way, thinking that if I didn’t […]Read More Are You Disappointed With The Results Of The Work You Didn’t Do?
When I was living in the dark I woke up angry that I woke up at all, I used to pray that I would die in my sleep, not because I wanted to die, but because I wanted to stop the negative cycle I was living in. Not sharing my truth with anyone, I had […]Read More Start With Gratitude, End With Thank You
Hope is a powerful thing. It was hope that saved me from myself, from my bad decisions, from my depression, from my negative thinking. It was someone sharing their story with me that sparked the hope in me. It was dim, but enough for me to take action and chase after that hope that things […]Read More Hope
Good morning SLAYER! There is no greater illusion than fear. New blog goes up Friday, until then… SLAY on!Read More Slay Say
Good morning SLAYER! We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used to create them. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!Read More Slay Slay
When we are kids, and I think especially us little girls, we dream of a happy ending for ourselves. I know for myself as a kid I lived a lot in my head and found fantasy much more appealing than reality, and sometimes I still do, so I dreamed up many happy ending scenarios for […]Read More Make Your Own Happy Ending
Good morning SLAYER! Action always beats intention. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!Read More Slay Say
We can easily fall down the rabbit hole of negative thinking, only seeing what we don’t like about ourselves, our lives and those around us, we complain, make negative comments and stay under a cloud of darkness. It can be a dangerous place to be if we allow ourselves to stay there and let it […]Read More What Are You Going To Do About It?