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Good morning SLAYERS! Don’t lose your fire. SLAY on!

Living In Limbo

These are strange times indeed. Living in limbo, not knowing when life will resume to any kind of semblance of what we knew. When things will come back, safely, and when our freedom to do the things we look forward to doing may be once again an option. It has been hard for me, and […]

A Pickle Can’t Go Back To Being A Cucumber

I don’t know how many times when I was living in my disease I wished I could turn back time. Each day things got worse, my shame got heavier and my self-hatred grew. I remember not understanding how I had gotten to the places I found myself, and instead of taking action to find out […]

What Can You Do To Contribute To Life?

This is a question I ask myself every day. It is a question that guides me, that opens my mind and heart, and, what lead me to start this blog years ago, what can I contribute to life? I was very blessed, when I began my journey in recovery, when I sought help it was […]

Are You Disappointed With The Results Of The Work You Didn’t Do?

Being disappointed by the results of work I didn’t do could sum up years of my life in the past. I suffered from magical thinking, believing or hoping I would get the desired result just by wishing it to happen. It never did. I would get in my own way, thinking that if I didn’t […]

Start With Gratitude, End With Thank You

When I was living in the dark I woke up angry that I woke up at all, I used to pray that I would die in my sleep, not because I wanted to die, but because I wanted to stop the negative cycle I was living in. Not sharing my truth with anyone, I had […]

Hope

Hope is a powerful thing. It was hope that saved me from myself, from my bad decisions, from my depression, from my negative thinking. It was someone sharing their story with me that sparked the hope in me. It was dim, but enough for me to take action and chase after that hope that things […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! There is no greater illusion than fear. New blog goes up Friday, until then… SLAY on!

Slay Slay

Good morning SLAYER! We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used to create them. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

Make Your Own Happy Ending

When we are kids, and I think especially us little girls, we dream of a happy ending for ourselves. I know for myself as a kid I lived a lot in my head and found fantasy much more appealing than reality, and sometimes I still do, so I dreamed up many happy ending scenarios for […]