Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! You are not your mistakes, they are what you did, not who you are. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

Suicide By Installment

When I think back to how I used to live my life, I can see how my behavior and choices lead to me hitting my emotional, spiritual and physical bottom. I did want to die every day, but only because I, alone, could not see any other solution to end my suffering, and, by not […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! We are what we say and do, not what we intend to do. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

People Show Us Who They Are

We’ve all heard the saying, “talk is cheap,” and I’ve found as I’ve moved forward on my journey that not only is it cheap, it has no value at all without proper action. Just saying something doesn’t make it true, right, or worth anything at all. It’s all in the action. People will tell us […]

Not Everything That Weighs You Down Is Yours To Carry

I’m having to practice this this week. There’s been a lot going on, in all aspects of my life, and I have to take a step back and look at the weight I’m carrying around. Is all of it mine to carry? The answer is no, but here I am, lugging it around with my […]

Giving Love To Get Love

Giving love should be it’s own reward. It shouldn’t matter whether that love is returned or not, it’s nice, and it’s preferable, but should not be the intention behind the love you give. If you’re giving love only to get it in return your intentions or motives cancel out the love you are giving, it’s […]

Mental Illness – THAT Label

When I was suffering in my disease I didn’t tell anyone what as going on with me. I carried a lot of fear and shame for how I was living my life and thought that if I did tell someone the thoughts that ran through my head, and the things I was doing daily just […]

Getting There, Not Being Here

We all want to get to where we’re going, even if we don’t know where that is. We seem to want to get there even faster when we do know where we want to go and have been working to get there. We can get so focused on the finish line that we miss all […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Are you distracted by the distraction of your distraction? Make sure you’re not trying to use outside things for an inside job. New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!