Make Room For Today

I used to live in could’ve, would’ve, should’ve, might’ve. I would get stuck in the past and replaying it over and over, reliving a moment and what I should’ve done, should’ve said or could’ve done better. I was constantly pulled back to my past, or daydreaming of the future and would might be, while present […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! At some point you just have to let go of what you thought should happen and live in what is happening. New blog goes up on Friday, until then…SLAY on!

Getting There, Not Being Here

We all want to get to where we’re going, even if we don’t know where that is. We seem to want to get there even faster when we do know where we want to go and have been working to get there. We can get so focused on the finish line that we miss all […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! As dark as things might be, you never know how bright the light is that is waiting for you if you just hold on. New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!

Hold On For The Good

Today is the 9 year anniversary of the night I should have died. I’ve written about that night in a blog entitled “A Power Greater Than Myself,” it was a night I should not have survived, and a night, back then, where a part of me wished I hadn’t. I had struggled with depression for […]

Don’t Borrow From Tomorrow

Before walking this path I was rarely present. There were a few reasons for that. One, I hated my present circumstances and hated who I was, so I would often think about tomorrow because that seemed less dim and dark because it hadn’t happened yet. Two, I wasn’t ready to take action to change the […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! It’s normal to come down after a big event in our lives, prepare yourself for the dip after the high, and don’t forget to live your life for today, not the one you just had. New blog goes up Friday, until then…SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Your past does not determine who you are, your past prepares you for who are you to become. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then…SLAY on!