The Weight of Imagined Expectations

So much of our energy is spent trying to live up to expectations that were never spoken.

We assume people expect perfection.

That they expect us to never fail.

Never change our minds.

Never disappoint them.

So we overthink.

We apologize for taking up space.

We delay decisions because we’re afraid of how they’ll be received.

We edit ourselves before we’ve even been misunderstood.

But so often, the pressure we’re carrying isn’t coming from other people.

It’s coming from the stories we’ve created about what we believe they expect.

And those stories quietly become rules.

Rules that keep us small.

Rules that keep us performing instead of living authentically.

The truth is, most people are far more focused on their own lives than they are on judging yours.

The prison isn’t always built by other people’s opinions.

Sometimes it’s built by the ones we’ve imagined.

This is your reminder that the freedom you’ve been searching for often begins when you stop living according to assumptions that were never true.

Slay on.