Healthy Fear

Until stepping onto this path my life was ruled by fear. Fear ran my life and was the basis of all my decisions. I would never have admitted that, or even identified it as such, but that was the truth. I was in fear of missing out, I was in fear of not getting what […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Your past mistakes are meant to guide you, not define you. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then…SLAY on!

Self-Forgiveness

That title made a few of you bristle I know. I remember when I was asked to make a list of people who I felt had harmed me, I feverishly started writing down my naughty list, finding satisfaction in naming all the people I felt had wronged me and made my life difficult. It was […]

It’s Not The Pain That Helps Us Grow, It’s Our Response To It.

Before stepping on this path I walked through a lot of pain, not always gracefully, in fact, often not gracefully, but more like the Tasmanian Devil spinning out of control, taking down anything and everything I could in my path. I would tell myself, as would those around me, that the pain was making me […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYERS! You may be imperfect, but you are worthy of belonging and love. New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!

Worthy Of Love

I find myself in a place I’ve never been. A place I don’t think I thought I would ever be in. A place that is new, where I am vulnerable, and I’ve been, and am vulnerable, but this is a new kind of vulnerability, a good kind, a sweet kind, a kind I should be, […]

Forgive Your Monsters, Don’t Let Them Take Anymore, They’ve Taken Enough

I know that sounds like a tall order, and it won’t happen overnight, but in order to move forward, to live a life of freedom, you have to find a way to let go of the monsters from your past, or, even your present. It took a lot of work on my part to forgive […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Don’t let the shadows of your past darken the the doorstep of your future. New blog goes up Friday, until then…SLAY on!

Slay Talk Live Video

Hello SLAYERS! Thank you to all the SLAYERS who joined me tonight! For those of you how didn’t join us, here’s what you missed! SLAY on!

You Can’t Change The Past, But You Can Change How It Affects You

There is no going back. No way to erase our past, make different choices, take different action. The past is, well, the past, it is what it is. Before stepping on this path I used the stories from my past to back up the narrative that I wanted to tell, that I was a victim. […]