When People Only See Who We Used To Be

I have changed a lot over the past 13 plus years. That core person I am is still there, and always was, although she was buried under a lot of junk I piled on top of her, but the essence of who I am has walked with me, that is person I fight for every […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Respond; don’t react. Listen; don’t talk. Think; don’t assume. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then…SLAY on!

Don’t React, Respond

My life before was one full of reactions. I reacted to everything around me and I reacted in record time. It’s like I thought I was going to get bonus points for reacting the fastest. As a result, many times, people got hurt or my rapid fast reaction was one from misunderstanding or my own […]

Thank You For Being Exactly Who You Are

I mean that, and I mean that for everyone. Those who love and support me, and especially to those who may not. I say especially to those who may not because those people who I may not agree with or who may not support who I am or what I do, sometimes teach me the […]

Say Thank You, Even If You Don’t Like It

I know what you’re thinking, why would I say thank you for something I don’t like? We should always say thank you, because we are grateful or appreciative for the good, and because we are grateful and appreciative for the not so good because we will learn from it. We label things as good or […]

You Are Only As Far Outside The Center Of Power As You Allow

This goes back to a lot of the topics I’ve written about in the past, we have the power to change, to be who we want to be, to do what we want to do, we are at the center of that power. Too often though, we forget that, acting powerless. We are not. There […]

What Is Your Anger Telling You?

We’ve all felt it, that heat, our blood boiling all the way up from our toes, the blinding rage that fills our body, but have you ever asked yourself, what is that anger trying to tell me? The anger you’re feeling, most of time, has nothing to do with the person or situation you find […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! When we act on self-righteous anger we are in danger of hurting ourselves, and those around us. You are in charge of how you react, and who you choose to engage with. Choose wisely. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then…SLAY on!