I See It When I Believe It

Before getting well, I was often heard saying the opposite, “I’ll believe that when I see it,” which was almost always followed by an eye roll. I had a very skeptical mind that always went to the negative. I looked for the negative so that’s what I saw. I believed that’s what I deserved because […]

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Slay Talk Live Tonight

Good morning SLAYER! Join me tonight for SLAY TALK LIVE at 5:30 pm PT / 8:30 pm ET for a half hour of caring, sharing, laughter and, usually, some good tears, happy ones, totally, you’ll see. To set a reminder, watch or join in, click this link: SLAY TALK LIVE Talk to you later SLAYER!

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Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Life has no remote, get up and change yourself. New blog goes up Friday, until then…SLAY on!

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If You Slip Up, Get Up

Before walking this path if I slipped while trying to work on a goal or practice a new lifestyle I’d throw the whole thing out. One mistake to me meant failure so what was the use in continuing? It would take days, weeks, months, sometimes years before I would try again. If ever. It was […]

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Don’t React, Respond

My life before was one full of reactions. I reacted to everything around me and I reacted in record time. It’s like I thought I was going to get bonus points for reacting the fastest. As a result, many times, people got hurt or my rapid fast reaction was one from misunderstanding or my own […]

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Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! We see ourselves in those around us, what we like or don’t like gets reflected back at us. New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!

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Super SaturSlay Story Submissions

Hey SLAYER! Saturday’s are now devoted to you! That’s right. Share how you’ve changed, challenged yourself, or overcome something in your life through STATE OF SLAY™ or the SOS community and see your story posted on stateofslay.com! Each SaturSlay will be a new post of inspiration from you! Send your inspirational story to carrie@stateofslay.com. Your […]

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Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! The fact that someone else loves you doesn’t rescue you from loving yourself, but it can start your journey to self-love. SLAY on!

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Loved Into Loving

When I first stepped on this path I hated myself. I didn’t even know if I was worth saving, or that I could change the way I felt about myself. I had lived so long as a liar and had done so many things to harm myself, I was so ashamed of the place I […]

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