Just Because You Hit A Bottom Doesn’t Mean You Have To Stay There

For most of us, there has been a time when we’ve hit a bottom, and for many of us, there have been many bottoms on our path, but just because we may find ourselves in a bottom, doesn’t mean we have to stay there. Hitting a bottom can in many ways be a blessing if […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYERS! We cannot become what we want by remaining what we are. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

You Can’t Help Someone Who Doesn’t Want To Help Themselves

We’ve all had those situations when someone comes to us distraught about their current situation. We listen, we sympathize, and we offer some suggestions, and, many times, those suggestions are shot down and what that person is really looking for is a quick fix and a solution that requires you to give something and lets […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Nothing changes if nothing changes. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

H.O.W.

For many of us, we may feel a change is needed or we may want to change but don’t know where to start. The idea of change may feel daunting, and we may not know how to start. Or, we may want change but only if it can be done on our terms or within […]

How We Live Today Is What Will Determine Tomorrow

This seemed like a timely topic, not only for ourselves personally, but globally. I’ve mentioned before that as the world has taken a pause it’s a good time to look at our lives and see if who we are and how we’re living and take an honest inventory of what we want to continue or […]

Was Blind But Now I See

As I was listening to Andrea Bocelli’s moving performance of “Amazing Grace” recently at the iconic Duomo cathedral in Milan I was reminded of the years I was struggling, a time when I didn’t’ believe I was worth saving and a time when I had lost hope, the line “I was blind but now I […]

Sometimes It’s Not The Light That Guides Us But The Darkness That Pushes Us

When I was living in the dark, that darkness surrounded me, I could feel it closing in, suffocating me as every bit of light was snuffed out. I saw it happening and yet did nothing to stop it, believing I belonged there, and hoping that somehow it would work itself out on its own. It […]

You Can’t Receive The Message If You Don’t Show Up To Listen

I write a lot about looking and listening for signs, they are all around us, but if we are close-minded, think we know everything, or are determined to walk a certain path regardless of what you we be shown, we can easily miss these signs and messages all around us by not showing up for […]

Cherishing Our Character Defects

When I stepped on this path I was encouraged to write down what I thought were my character defects. Defects? That seemed harsh. I mean, clearly, there were some things that weren’t working in my life, after all, I had gotten myself to a place where I could no longer find a way out on […]