Actress Carrie Genzel Shares Her Coping Strategies During the Pandemic

Guilt Is Trying To Control The Past, Fear Is Trying To Control The Future

All we have control over is the right here and now, and even then, really, we only have control of how we respond to it. we can certainly take action to work toward a goal or act choose actions that allow us to be our best selves, but control, that we can’t do. But when […]

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Good morning SLAYER! 97% of what you worry about never happens. New blog goes up Friday, until then… SLAY on!

Celebrate Instead Of Isolate

The holiday season is here and it’s a time that may not be all that jolly for everyone. I know for myself, before I started my journey on my current path, I dreaded all holidays. It was a time that made me feel like hiding or escaping and I felt pressured to have a good […]

The Negative Space

I was in a conversation someone who works in design the other day and she was talking about the beauty of negative space. It made me think, that yes, there is beauty in not having to fit everything in, in order or right in line with the next. There is something very beautiful with space […]

When Things Seem To Be Falling Apart, They May Be Falling Together

I was reminded yesterday, thanks to Facebook memories, which aren’t always a good thing, but yesterday was a good one, that one year ago yesterday my life changed, a change for the better, and a change that has brought me to this place I am today, gratefully so. Personally, a year go, I was not […]

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Good morning SLAYER! Find a tribe that matches your vibe. New blog goes up Friday, until then…SLAY on!

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Good morning SLAYER! You are not alone. SLAY on!

Alone In A Crowded Room

I’ve talked a lot at STATE OF SLAY about feeling different, less than, feeling awkward and anxious in social situations growing up, and into my adulthood, before walking this path. It’s a time of year when there are many social gatherings, parties and family functions and I was reminded how I used to feel alone […]

Upside-Down Personality Right-Side Up

I always felt different from everyone else. As far back as I can remember, sitting in school, or standing in the playground, everyone else seemed to have an easier time than I did, or so it seemed, to me. I always had friends, but I had to work at it, it wasn’t something that came […]