Break The Loyalties Of Inaccurate Information About Yourself

Before stepping into the light I was very loyal to who I thought I was, who I had been told I was, and who I thought my life had produced and locked me into being. As we grow up what we learn about ourselves comes from those around us, what we learn becomes what we […]

Willing To Be Willing

When I stepped on this path there were a lot of changes I wanted to make, and, a lot of things I wished to be removed that I knew were standing in my way of becoming the person I wanted to be, but, some of those things, even though I knew they were standing in […]

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Good morning SLAYER! Every day is another chance. SLAY on!

Feeling Bad Doesn’t Mean You’re A Bad Person

Before walking this path I thought I was a bad person. Because I felt bad and was thinking bad thoughts I thought that made me a bad person. What I didn’t realize back then is that I had an untreated disease that was centered in my mind, a disease that constantly fed me bad thoughts […]

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Good morning SLAYER! Your mind is a very powerful thing. SLAY on!

Happy Where You Are

When I was living in the darkness I thought I needed certain things to be happy. I had a list, and because I hadn’t obtained everything on that list I felt justified in my unhappiness. I used that list as an excuse to sit in my anger and depression and felt entitled to have the […]

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Good morning SLAYER! It takes time to get familiar with new thoughts and situations, don’t let it stop you from changing. New blog goes up Sunday, until then… SLAY on!

Even Though You Might Not See It, Things Are Changing

I was speaking with a friend yesterday who has been going through a difficult time as she recovers from a trauma. She felt discouraged at her progress, and didn’t feel like she was moving forward fast enough. She had been feeling disconnected from her friends and family and had been afraid to leave her house. […]

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Good morning SLAYER! Make sure you’re putting your energy in the right places. New blog goes up Friday, until then…. SLAY on!

Become Aware Of What’s Really Worth Your Energy

Before walking this path, I spent a lot of energy on things that did not serve me. Things that drained me, instead of filled me up, things that actually damaged my spirit rather than nourished it and allowed it shine brighter. I was loyal, but loyal to a fault, staying in a relationship or friendship […]