Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Keep an open mind and a compassionate heart. New blog goes up Friday, until then… SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Let’s root for each other, and watch each other grow. New blog goes up Friday, until then… SLAY on!

At A Rare Loss For Words

It’s very rare that I am at a loss for words. Anyone that knows me well, will tell you that. But I have just been taken aback by the behavior of many lately. For those of you that read my blogs regularly and have followed State Of Slay™ you know that I aim to look […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Let the kindness in and allow yourself to be loved. New blog goes up Sunday, until then… SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Remember, your words can plant gardens or burn down forests. New blog goes up Friday, until then… SLAY on!

We Accept The Love We Think We Deserve

For most of my life I thought I was unlovable. I didn’t love myself, I didn’t even like myself, and so I never trusted that anyone who said they did. And, if someone did seem genuine it made me uncomfortable, and fearful that they were going to find out the ugly truth sooner or later, […]

Everyone Wants To Change The World But Are You Willing To Change Yourself?

There’s a lot of talk about change right now, and that’s good, the awareness that something might need to be changed and the discussion are the first steps, but I’ve found that any real change in my life has come from myself, how I treat myself, treat others and what I contribute to my community. […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! It’s cool to be kind. New blog goes up Friday, until then… SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Use your voice for kindness, your ears for compassion, your hands for charity, your mind for truth, and your heart for love. SLAY on!

Is It True, Is It Right, Is It Selfish, Is It Loving?

I was speaking to someone recently in recovery about an issue I was struggling with, and she asked me of I ran my situation through The Four Absolutes. I had to think about what all four of those were, and then remembered they were honesty, unselfishness, purity and love. As I thought about what was […]