Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! It’s cool to be kind. New blog goes up Friday, until then… SLAY on!

Is It True, Is It Right, Is It Selfish, Is It Loving?

I was speaking to someone recently in recovery about an issue I was struggling with, and she asked me of I ran my situation through The Four Absolutes. I had to think about what all four of those were, and then remembered they were honesty, unselfishness, purity and love. As I thought about what was […]

Accept The Gifts

For many of us, it isn’t easy asking for help or accepting it, and during this time it’s near impossible to do everything on our own. The circumstances in which we live make it very difficult to never find ourselves in a position to ask for help. I’ve written before that it’s OK to ask […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Achievement is never the result of selfishness, it is born out of sacrifice. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

Selfishness Leads To Suffering

Selfishness, by definition, is a person, action, or motive lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one’s own personal profit or pleasure. Now, when I was living in my illness I, many times, was extremely selfish, but I would justify it a thousand ways, or spin it so it seemed that I was actually selfless […]

What You Worship Will Eat You Alive

Whether you consider yourself religious, spiritual or an atheist, many of us still worship something. It may be money, clothes, ourselves, weight, beauty, travel, it can be a person, but whatever it is, whenever we place too much importance, above and beyond our own well-being, mental health and spiritual fitness, will eventually eat us alive, […]

Giving Love To Get Love

Giving love should be it’s own reward. It shouldn’t matter whether that love is returned or not, it’s nice, and it’s preferable, but should not be the intention behind the love you give. If you’re giving love only to get it in return your intentions or motives cancel out the love you are giving, it’s […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! The fact that someone else loves you doesn’t rescue you from loving yourself, but it can start your journey to self-love. SLAY on!