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Good morning SLAYERS! If your dreams don’t scare you they’re too small. SLAY on!

Don’t Downsize Your Dreams To Fit Your Reality

We all have dreams. Things we would like to accomplish, see for ourselves, a life that we may not currently have, perhaps with someone else, or personal goals. And where we are now shouldn’t limit the dreams that you have and what you can accomplish. Many times in my life I have had a dream […]

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Good morning SLAYER! The story of your darkness may bring someone light. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Let’s root for each other, and watch each other grow. New blog goes up Friday, until then… SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Be grateful to everyone who lifts you up and helps you shine. We go further together. SLAY on!

At A Rare Loss For Words

It’s very rare that I am at a loss for words. Anyone that knows me well, will tell you that. But I have just been taken aback by the behavior of many lately. For those of you that read my blogs regularly and have followed State Of Slay™ you know that I aim to look […]

Be A Light Not A Fixer

For many of us, it is in our nature to want to fix things, to offer advice, or to help someone see there is another way. That can often come at the price of our own happiness or someone else’s who may not want to be our project or the target of our unsolicited advice, […]

When You Judge Someone By Their Past It Can Make That Past Impossible To Escape

I’ve been thinking about this one for a while. I’ve seen this happen over the years and most recently with someone I love. I’ve shared before that sometimes when we move on, better ourselves and our lives, that some around us may try to hold us back to make themselves feel comfortable, not everyone wants […]

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Good morning SLAYER! You never know how long your words will stay in someone’s mind long after you’ve said them, or your own mind. SLAY on!

We Accept The Love We Think We Deserve

For most of my life I thought I was unlovable. I didn’t love myself, I didn’t even like myself, and so I never trusted that anyone who said they did. And, if someone did seem genuine it made me uncomfortable, and fearful that they were going to find out the ugly truth sooner or later, […]