I was with a group of people yesterday and we were talking about how the greatest gift, or way of being of service to someone, is to listen. Many times that’s all anyone wants, to be heard, and yet, too many times we chime in with our opinion or experience before they’ve had a chance […]Read More W.A.I.T. – Why Am I Talking?
We always seem to know when we’re not happy, some of us also like to bring attention to our unhappiness, but as you SLAYERS know, I’m all about taking action, so those who may be complaining I ask you, what are we doing for our happiness hygiene? It’s up to us to make sure our […]Read More Happy Hygiene
I used to live in a constant state of want. Of always having to have the next great thing, or what I perceived as the next great thing I had to have. I used things to try to fill that void inside, that dark empty place that can’t be filled by outside things, but I […]Read More Never Let The Things You Want Make You Forget The Things You Have
Good morning SLAYER! It’s not so much knowing when to speak, it’s knowing when to pause. New blog goes up Friday, until then…SLAY on!Read More Slay Say
Too often we put a lot of pressure on ourselves to be a certain way, to not make mistakes or to appear to be something we may not be. What we are, is human. We are fallible. We stumble. Stutter. We make mistakes. We are meant to, that’s how we learn. So it’s important in […]Read More Give Yourself Space
Good morning SLAYER! The greatest gift is when you’re able to bless someone else while walking through your own storm. SLAY on!Read More Slay Say
This one was actually a special request, but funny enough I was just talking about this topic yesterday with a dear friend who lost his spouse a year and a half go and was feeling lost. I know for me, when I hit my bottom and finally reached for help I was faced with the […]Read More You Found Your Way Out Of The Darkness. So Now What?
Everyone wants to be heard. One of the greatest gifts we can give someone is to listen to them. Listening to someone is an act of love. And practicing that gift is also a gift to yourself. It was a gift I had to learn. Before this journey I, many times, wouldn’t listen, not truly, […]Read More Listening Is Loving
Before I started to walk in this path I was often heard saying, “why do these things always happen to me,” I felt like I was in the movie GROUNDHOG DAY, always seeming to find my way in similar places and problems and not understanding how I kept getting there. Well, I kept finding myself […]Read More When You Have The Understanding, You No Longer Need The Experience
There’s a supermarket I frequent in Los Angeles, I typically go in two to three times a week, and most times I walk in there is a security guard I say hello to as I pick up my basket. I always make sure to start my shopping with a hello to him and a smile, […]Read More Nice Lady