Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! You are not your mistakes, they are what you did, not who you are. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

Suicide By Installment

When I think back to how I used to live my life, I can see how my behavior and choices lead to me hitting my emotional, spiritual and physical bottom. I did want to die every day, but only because I, alone, could not see any other solution to end my suffering, and, by not […]

Thank You Is An Action Word

Saying thank you can mean a lot, to acknowledge what someone has done and to let them know they’ve made a difference, but saying thank you just isn’t enough, just as saying sorry isn’t enough without changed behavior, thank you isn’t where your gratitude should end. When I started on my journey of recovery I […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYERS! Don’t aim for perfection, aim for better than yesterday. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYERS! You either make yourself accountable our you will be made accountable to your circumstances. SLAY on!

Accountability

A huge part of my recovery has been my ability to be accountable. That is something I had to learn, as I certainly wasn’t practicing it while living in the dark. Back then I often would say and do things and then blame them on others, pretend it hadn’t been me who had said or […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! You did what you knew how to do at the time, when you know better, you do better. New blog goes up Sunday, until then… SLAY on!

When Things Seem To Be Falling Apart, They May Be Falling Together

I was reminded yesterday, thanks to Facebook memories, which aren’t always a good thing, but yesterday was a good one, that one year ago yesterday my life changed, a change for the better, and a change that has brought me to this place I am today, gratefully so. Personally, a year go, I was not […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYERS! To be human is to feel broken sometimes, but loving all those broken pieces is it’s own kind of beautiful. New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!

I See It When I Believe It

Before getting well, I was often heard saying the opposite, “I’ll believe that when I see it,” which was almost always followed by an eye roll. I had a very skeptical mind that always went to the negative. I looked for the negative so that’s what I saw. I believed that’s what I deserved because […]