How Does This Make Us Better?

During difficult times in my life I have always come out the other side of them better. Even on the most difficult time, the night I nearly lost my life, and by all accounts, should have, I came out better for it. Those big defining moments in our lives, those events that change us, do […]

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Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! You are not your mistakes, they are what you did, not who you are. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

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Suicide By Installment

When I think back to how I used to live my life, I can see how my behavior and choices lead to me hitting my emotional, spiritual and physical bottom. I did want to die every day, but only because I, alone, could not see any other solution to end my suffering, and, by not […]

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Thank You Is An Action Word

Saying thank you can mean a lot, to acknowledge what someone has done and to let them know they’ve made a difference, but saying thank you just isn’t enough, just as saying sorry isn’t enough without changed behavior, thank you isn’t where your gratitude should end. When I started on my journey of recovery I […]

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Slay Say

Good morning SLAYERS! Don’t aim for perfection, aim for better than yesterday. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

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Slay Say

Good morning SLAYERS! You either make yourself accountable our you will be made accountable to your circumstances. SLAY on!

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Accountability

A huge part of my recovery has been my ability to be accountable. That is something I had to learn, as I certainly wasn’t practicing it while living in the dark. Back then I often would say and do things and then blame them on others, pretend it hadn’t been me who had said or […]

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Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! You did what you knew how to do at the time, when you know better, you do better. New blog goes up Sunday, until then… SLAY on!

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Slay Say

Good morning SLAYERS! To be human is to feel broken sometimes, but loving all those broken pieces is it’s own kind of beautiful. New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!

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