A Pickle Can’t Go Back To Being A Cucumber

I don’t know how many times when I was living in my disease I wished I could turn back time. Each day things got worse, my shame got heavier and my self-hatred grew. I remember not understanding how I had gotten to the places I found myself, and instead of taking action to find out […]

When You Judge Someone By Their Past It Can Make That Past Impossible To Escape

I’ve been thinking about this one for a while. I’ve seen this happen over the years and most recently with someone I love. I’ve shared before that sometimes when we move on, better ourselves and our lives, that some around us may try to hold us back to make themselves feel comfortable, not everyone wants […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! There are two ways to be happy; change the situation or change your mindset to the situation. New blog goes up Sunday, until then… SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Your life only gets better when you do. Work on yourself, the rest will follow. New blog goes up Friday, until then… SLAY on!

How We Live Today Is What Will Determine Tomorrow

This seemed like a timely topic, not only for ourselves personally, but globally. I’ve mentioned before that as the world has taken a pause it’s a good time to look at our lives and see if who we are and how we’re living and take an honest inventory of what we want to continue or […]

Are You Disappointed With The Results Of The Work You Didn’t Do?

Being disappointed by the results of work I didn’t do could sum up years of my life in the past. I suffered from magical thinking, believing or hoping I would get the desired result just by wishing it to happen. It never did. I would get in my own way, thinking that if I didn’t […]

Don’t Forget To Check Your Odometer

Some of us move through life at such speed that we never catch up to ourselves, and then others move without realizing how far they’ve actually come. It’s always easier for someone to gauge the distance we’ve traveled than we can ourselves, we don’t seem to accurately see how far we’ve come. I was sharing […]

Was Blind But Now I See

As I was listening to Andrea Bocelli’s moving performance of “Amazing Grace” recently at the iconic Duomo cathedral in Milan I was reminded of the years I was struggling, a time when I didn’t’ believe I was worth saving and a time when I had lost hope, the line “I was blind but now I […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Behave as you want to be, your best you. New blog goes up Sunday, until then… SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYERS! Life has a way of evening things out, focus your energy on your own success. SLAY on!