Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! You can only accept mistakes and flaws in others to the degree that you accept your own. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then…SLAY on!

Upside-Down Personality Right-Side Up

I always felt different from everyone else. As far back as I can remember, sitting in school, or standing in the playground, everyone else seemed to have an easier time than I did, or so it seemed, to me. I always had friends, but I had to work at it, it wasn’t something that came […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! You’ll never notice the beauty around you if you’re too busy running around trying to create it. New blog goes up Friday, until then…SLAY on!

Embracing Is Acing

Before walking this path the only thing I was embracing were the outside things I thought would fill me up. None of them ever did, not in the long-term. Sure I might get a hit of satisfaction or relief, but soon after that emptiness would creep back in. Back then, I couldn’t even fathom embracing […]

Shutter Shame

How often have we let shame get in the way of living the life we want to have? How often have we let it limit us, hinder us, and diminish us? We think our shame is a way to protect us from being hurt, from being rejected, from allowing others to see who we really […]

You Don’t Have To Be Perfect, You Just Have To Be

I think of all the times I didn’t show up, or start something, or even try because it wasn’t perfect, or I wasn’t perfect. Too many to count. And I think about all of the opportunities I may have missed because of it, times I cheated myself out of things because things didn’t look the […]

Slayer Say

Good morning SLAYER! Learning to celebrate our flaws, loving them, and turning them into strengths makes us flawsome! We have the power to do that. Loving ourselves and embracing our uniqueness gets us on the road to flawsomeness, as we continue to accept and love ourselves we work towards finding a place where we stop […]

I’m Not Perfect, I’m Flawsome!

The picture accompanying this blog is from a time when I was definitely not flawsome, flawed yes, but not flawsome. I’ve had this picture since 2003 and, outside of the person who took it, I’ve ever only shown it one other person. This is a picture I would have never let anyone see before stepping […]