You Can’t Open A Flower With A Sledgehammer

Well, I guess you can open a flower with a sledgehammer, but the result isn’t going to be pretty. That goes for life as well. We can force things to go our way, try to speed things up or manipulate them in our favor but most of the time we will destroy what is there […]

Go With The Flow

I am someone who is typically organized, I have appointments and notes in my calendar, with reminder notifications set, I make lists, stay on a schedule and always have my eye on the days ahead to make sure I’ve set up what I need so I don’t get caught by surprise, so, in these current […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! The more you try to control something the more it controls you. SLAY on!

Are You Playing Director And Trying To Run The Show?

Before walking this path I thought I knew better. About everything. I thought I knew how things should be run for myself, for you, and everyone else out there. As far as I was concerned, you were all doing it wrong, and if you would just listen to me, life would have been going smoother […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! If you’re living in harmony with yourself, you’re living in harmony with the universe. New blog goes up Friday, until then…SLAY on!

How Do I Know I’m In The Flow?

Someone recently asked me how I know when I’m in the will of the universe or my own will. For me, I can typically tell because when I’m not trying to force my will things go smoothly, it’s like being in the express lane on the freeway. Looking back, before stepping on this path, I […]

Wear The World Like A Loose Garment

Before stepping on this path I was constantly trying to control the world around me. I would manipulate things to try to force a favorable outcome for myself. I would lie. Cheat. Steal. I would do anything I could to try to get the result I was looking for. As those of you know who […]

Are You Killing Yourself To Live?

Sometimes we stay somewhere that feels safe even though it’s killing us. Sometimes we go after a job, a relationship, a situation that we feel we want, need, deserve, but we don’t belong there, and the pursuit of it is killing us. Sometimes we believe if we don’t get something or can’t maintain something we […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! If life was meant to be controlled, it would have come with a remote. New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!

Living With Unsolved Problems

We all have them, those things in our lives that we just can’t figure out, or, we can’t solve because another person may not want to discuss or engage with us to find a solution, or things that are out of hands and out of our control and they can eat away at us. I […]