Just Because You Hit A Bottom Doesn’t Mean You Have To Stay There

For most of us, there has been a time when we’ve hit a bottom, and for many of us, there have been many bottoms on our path, but just because we may find ourselves in a bottom, doesn’t mean we have to stay there. Hitting a bottom can in many ways be a blessing if […]

When Nothing Goes Right, Go Left

We’ve all had those times when nothing seems to be going right. We keep hitting walls no matter how hard we work or try to make things happen. We get frustrated and keep finding ourselves in one dead end after another. Sometimes we give up, exhausted from continuing on the same path with little or […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Create your own opportunities. New blog goes up Friday, until then… SLAY on!

Is It True, Is It Right, Is It Selfish, Is It Loving?

I was speaking to someone recently in recovery about an issue I was struggling with, and she asked me of I ran my situation through The Four Absolutes. I had to think about what all four of those were, and then remembered they were honesty, unselfishness, purity and love. As I thought about what was […]

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Good morning SLAYER! If you don’t change direction you might end up where you’re headed. New blog goes up Sunday, until then… SLAY on!

It Starts In Our Thoughts

It took a lot of humility and work on myself to realize that I had a thinking problem. No matter what outside issue I used to get by, to numb myself or to try to change my feelings, my real issue was my thinking. That realization hit me like a ton of bricks. If my […]

Make Your Own Happy Ending

When we are kids, and I think especially us little girls, we dream of a happy ending for ourselves. I know for myself as a kid I lived a lot in my head and found fantasy much more appealing than reality, and sometimes I still do, so I dreamed up many happy ending scenarios for […]

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Good morning SLAYER! The quieter you become the more you can hear. New blog goes up Sunday, until then… SLAY on!

Overthinking Overtalking

There is so much power in a pause. Not only from our mouth, but also our minds. Before walking this path I was always thinking and talking too much. Worried I wasn’t going to get what I wanted, or I was going to lose what I had, my mind and mouth was always going, partly […]