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When I started State of Slay™ I was in a different place in my life. Since starting this blog my life has gotten bigger, beyond what I ever could have imagined, and it keeps expanding, all good things, but I have been feeling overwhelmed trying to fit my SOS blog posts into my days and […]

You Become The Fears You Dwell On

Most of us have fears, but when our focus is on them we become what we fear. We invite them to take power over us and many times they become a self-fulfilling prophesy and manifest in our lives when we put too much energy into them. I’ve written before about attracting the energy we want […]

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Good morning SLAYER! Don’t trip over what’s behind you. SLAY on!

No One Ever Injured Their Eyesight Looking At The Brightside

There is always a bright side, sometimes it may be more difficult to find, but it’s there if we look for it. Oftentimes it isn’t revealed to us until later when we realize that by not getting what we wanted we got something better. But I’ve shared before that when we actively look for the […]

Start With Gratitude, End With Thank You

When I was living in the dark I woke up angry that I woke up at all, I used to pray that I would die in my sleep, not because I wanted to die, but because I wanted to stop the negative cycle I was living in. Not sharing my truth with anyone, I had […]

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Good morning SLAYER! If you don’t change direction you might end up where you’re headed. New blog goes up Sunday, until then… SLAY on!

Which Way Are You Going?

For many years I knew I was going the wrong way. I made bad decisions, let my ego get in the way of me seeking help, and listened to my negative thinking that told me I didn’t deserve any better. I was speeding up a one-way street in the wrong direction and knew that eventually […]

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Good morning SLAYERS! Life has a way of evening things out, focus your energy on your own success. SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Jealousy is the cousin of greed. When we focus on what we want and lose sight of what we need. New blog goes up Sunday, until then… SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Everything in life is easier when you don’t concern yourself with what everyone else is doing. New blog goes up Sunday, until then… SLAY on!