When I was living in my disease I used to think I was too damaged to be loved. I thought that if I let someone in, truly in, they would see my scars and see how ugly I was. When I looked at myself, all I could see was the scars, and I worked really […]Read More Your Scars May Be Someone Else’s Hope
Why do we stay? Why do we stay when we are not appreciated for who we are? When we’re not understood? Supported? Loved? Encouraged? When someone doesn’t see, or understand, our value? I guess there are a lot of reasons we stay, and, some excuses. But the truth of the matter is that, when we […]Read More The Person Who Doesn’t Value You Is Blocking You From The One Who Will
Hey, we all love a little validation for a job well done, or a good deed, or just for being the best we can be right? It’s nice to feel appreciated, but when that validation becomes the only reason for doing something it becomes a problem. I’ve talked about how we shouldn’t do anything unless […]Read More Validation: But What About Me?
Good morning SLAYER! Ignoring something doesn’t make it go away, it usually does the opposite, the longer you neglect something, the bigger it becomes. Things are only as big as we give them power to be, tackle them early, and they stay right-sized. New blog goes up Friday, until then…SLAY on!Read More Slay Say
For those of you who join me for the SLAY TALK LIVE livestream each month, you’ve heard me talk about giving back, of spreading a positive message to those who need it, and of my commitment to spread a message of hope. Last night I spoke at a mental hospital here in Los Angeles. A […]Read More When We Share Our Stories, We Spread Hope
Good morning SLAYER! Sometimes, walking away has nothing to do with weakness, and everything to do with strength. We walk away not because we want others to realize our worth and value, but because we finally realize our own. New blog goes up Friday, until then…SLAY on!Read More Slay Say