You Can’t Help Someone Who Doesn’t Want To Help Themselves

We’ve all had those situations when someone comes to us distraught about their current situation. We listen, we sympathize, and we offer some suggestions, and, many times, those suggestions are shot down and what that person is really looking for is a quick fix and a solution that requires you to give something and lets […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! The more we value things outside our control, the less control we have. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

Needing Someone To Do What You Want Them To Do So You Are OK

We all go through life wanting the people, places and things around us to do certain things, certain things in our favor, but many times we place the conditions of our wellness on things going our way and when they don’t we become unhinged or lost, it is not up to the world to adjust […]

How We Live Today Is What Will Determine Tomorrow

This seemed like a timely topic, not only for ourselves personally, but globally. I’ve mentioned before that as the world has taken a pause it’s a good time to look at our lives and see if who we are and how we’re living and take an honest inventory of what we want to continue or […]

Does The Quiet Scare You?

When I was living the dark I surrounded myself with a lot of noise. I didn’t realize I was doing it, or that I had stopped doing the things that used to ground me, or allowed me to find peace. My disease didn’t want me to find that peace, it wanted to keep its negative […]

Break The Loyalties Of Inaccurate Information About Yourself

Before stepping into the light I was very loyal to who I thought I was, who I had been told I was, and who I thought my life had produced and locked me into being. As we grow up what we learn about ourselves comes from those around us, what we learn becomes what we […]

Happy Where You Are

When I was living in the darkness I thought I needed certain things to be happy. I had a list, and because I hadn’t obtained everything on that list I felt justified in my unhappiness. I used that list as an excuse to sit in my anger and depression and felt entitled to have the […]

Never Search In The Branches For What Is Found In The Roots

Before walking my current path, I often would get distracted by shiny sparkly things. I had a constant list of things on my “want” list, and those things, when I did obtain them, became like a drug that I was continuously chasing. The items I was buying were like my armor, or so I thought, […]

You Don’t Need A New Day To Start

Back when I was sick I would talk myself out of doing something that was good for me, or a goal I wanted to reach, or, a new way of life, because I would set specific parameters of what that journey had to look like, or, what conditions I had to find myself in to […]

If You Feel Like You’re Sliding, Ground Yourself In Gratitude

I talk a lot about the energy we give out everyday is the energy that comes back to us, something I’m putting more thought into myself these days, keeping positive energy in my home, including watching the types of conversations that are started. Even just saying something negative about someone, or talking about something you […]