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Slay On

When I started State of Slay™ I was in a different place in my life. Since starting this blog my life has gotten bigger, beyond what I ever could have imagined, and it keeps expanding, all good things, but I have been feeling overwhelmed trying to fit my SOS blog posts into my days and […]

Break The Loyalties Of Inaccurate Information About Yourself

Before stepping into the light I was very loyal to who I thought I was, who I had been told I was, and who I thought my life had produced and locked me into being. As we grow up what we learn about ourselves comes from those around us, what we learn becomes what we […]

It’s OK To Give Yourself A Break

I’ve been shooting on location, and the days have been long. The other night I got back to my hotel room and had many pages of dialogue to memorize for the next day, with an early morning start time. I sat, conflicted, as I knew I had a blog due to be posted the next […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! If you’re always rushing to the next moment, what happens to the one you’re in? New blog goes up Friday, until then…SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Your life is your own work of art, you get to decide what that looks like for you. SLAY on!

You Can Waste Your Life Trying To Stay In The Lines, Or You Can Live Your Life Crossing Them

I’ve always identified myself as a rule breaker. Someone who didn’t follow the pack and didn’t stay within the lines, and I did to an extent, but what I didn’t realize is that, even though I wasn’t following and staying in the lines that society told me I had to, that freedom I wore so […]