People Are Praying For What You Have Right Now

It can be easy to forget all the good we have in our lives. The blessings. The good fortune. And, how far we’ve come from the places we’ve been. There are days when we may feel we are lost, or stuck or not where we think we should be. Or, there just may be days […]

Make Room For Today

I used to live in could’ve, would’ve, should’ve, might’ve. I would get stuck in the past and replaying it over and over, reliving a moment and what I should’ve done, should’ve said or could’ve done better. I was constantly pulled back to my past, or daydreaming of the future and would might be, while present […]

H.O.W. – Honesty, Open-Mindedness, Willingness

Before walking this path I constantly asked myself how. I asked myself how I had gotten myself into the place I had. I asked myself how I had let things get so bad. I asked myself how I had lost control of my life. And, I asked myself how I could stop the pain. But […]

Immobilized By Sadness

I used to let my sadness immobilize me. I’d let it wash over me and take me out to sea, where I’d just float in my sadness until one day I’d wash up on shore again. I was out to sea with my sadness much more than I was on shore before walking this path. […]

Sometimes You Have To Make Permanent Decisions In Instant Moments

There have been moments my life, when maybe I had been putting myself in a situation I shouldn’t have been in, or had stayed too long in a place I should have long left, that will come to a head and I need to make a permanent decision in an instant moment. Those moments don’t […]

The Person Who Doesn’t Value You Is Blocking You From The One Who Will

Why do we stay? Why do we stay when we are not appreciated for who we are? When we’re not understood? Supported? Loved? Encouraged? When someone doesn’t see, or understand, our value? I guess there are a lot of reasons we stay, and, some excuses. But the truth of the matter is that, when we […]

Walk Up From The Basement

We forget sometimes that we have the power to walk away from a situation that no longer serves us, or maybe never did. We don’t have to stay down in the basement. In the dark. We can walk up those stairs and live the life we want, have dreamed of, and truly deserve. We sometimes […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! When anxiety and stress have your brain stuck in a loop, reboot, it’s the I.T. of life! New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!

Sometimes You Have To Unfollow Your Old Dreams To Chase New Ones

We grow up with hopes and dreams of what we would like our lives to look like. Some change as we grow but some we stick on to, hold onto like a life raft in the ocean. We have put so much time into crafting some dreams, and have worked so hard to lay the […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! When you’re too caught up in what’s happened in the past, you miss what’s right in front of you. New blog goes up Friday, until then…SLAY on!