Guilt Is Trying To Control The Past, Fear Is Trying To Control The Future

All we have control over is the right here and now, and even then, really, we only have control of how we respond to it. we can certainly take action to work toward a goal or act choose actions that allow us to be our best selves, but control, that we can’t do. But when […]

Overthinking Overtalking

There is so much power in a pause. Not only from our mouth, but also our minds. Before walking this path I was always thinking and talking too much. Worried I wasn’t going to get what I wanted, or I was going to lose what I had, my mind and mouth was always going, partly […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Jealousy is the cousin of greed. When we focus on what we want and lose sight of what we need. New blog goes up Sunday, until then… SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! You might not be able to control someone else’s bad behavior, but you can control if you participate in it. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

Living In Grace, Not Mercy

My life before was one based in fear. I was in fear of what was to come, I was in fear of what I had done and I was constantly asking for forgiveness and mercy when I had no intention of changing or following through on what I had promised. I walked with my head […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Forgiveness is a daily practice. New blog goes up Friday, until then… SLAY on!

When People Only See Who We Used To Be

I have changed a lot over the past 13 plus years. That core person I am is still there, and always was, although she was buried under a lot of junk I piled on top of her, but the essence of who I am has walked with me, that is person I fight for every […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Peace requires us to surrender our illusions of control. SLAY on!

Surrender For The Win

Before walking this path I thought of surrender for a four letter word. I considered myself a warrior, a fighter and able to overcome anything that came my way, I had already overcome a lot, and wore those victories like badges of honor. But when I found myself in a downward slide, one that, no […]

The Negative Space

I was in a conversation someone who works in design the other day and she was talking about the beauty of negative space. It made me think, that yes, there is beauty in not having to fit everything in, in order or right in line with the next. There is something very beautiful with space […]