Accept The Gifts

For many of us, it isn’t easy asking for help or accepting it, and during this time it’s near impossible to do everything on our own. The circumstances in which we live make it very difficult to never find ourselves in a position to ask for help. I’ve written before that it’s OK to ask […]

Slay Slay

Good morning SLAYER! Determined people working together can do anything. SLAY on!

Expressing Emotion Is A Strength Not A Character Flaw

Before walking this path the only emotion I ever expressed was anger. Anything else I stuffed down, covered up or numbed out. And usually that anger was really a smokescreen for getting caught doing something I shouldn’t have been doing, for being caught in a lie or not getting my own way. Of course, there […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! You are strong when you know your weaknesses. New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!

Our Weaknesses Are Often An Overuse Of Our Strengths

We typically are quick to point out our weaknesses, whether to others, or within ourselves. We can often fixate on those perceived weaknesses giving them more weight than our strengths and positive attributes. But often, those “weaknesses” are our strengths, we may just be overusing them. When I look back to my life before walking […]

Bringing Love To Your Wounds

Often times we are the ones who hurt ourselves the most. And even in times when someone else may be hurting us, we allow them to do it, whether directly or indirectly, by engaging with that person or putting ourselves in the situation to begin with. But, most times we are the ones who do […]

Humility Coming From Pain

I know for me, it took a lot of pain before I found any humility, it actually took me getting knocked down to me knees, time and time again, until I finally surrendered. Up until that point, I thought I knew better, knew what was best for me, and usually, what was best for you […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Sometimes, walking away has nothing to do with weakness, and everything to do with strength. We walk away not because we want others to realize our worth and value, but because we finally realize our own. New blog goes up Friday, until then…SLAY on!

Slayer Say

Good morning SLAYER! What weakness can you turn into a strength? SLAY on. New blog goes up Tuesday morning!

Weaknesses Become Strengths

Yeah you read that right SLAYERS, those things we consider our weaknesses will become our strengths! Crazy right? Hear me out. All of the things in our lives that challenge us, when we learn to and choose to take the right action, make us stronger and better people. I know, you’re still skeptical, I used […]