You Can Get Anything Done If You Don’t Need Credit For It

We should be motivated to act because we want to. Period. We should not be seeking approval, praise, or credit for what we do because when we do it dilutes our motives for starting in the first place, and if our motive was only self-seeking, then it’s time to take a look at our motivation […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Seeking validation will keep you trapped. You don’t need anyone or anything to prove your worth. New blog goes up Friday, until then… SLAY on!

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Freedom is being you without anyone’s permission. SLAY on!

Honor Each Other’s Experience

I was with a group of people recently, and someone was sharing about a very dark time in their life and how she turned things around to the life she has today. Shortly after her sharing her story someone else chimed in to share a time when things were dark in their life, and make […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Seeking validation will keep you trapped. You don’t need anyone or anything to prove your worth. When you believe this, you will be free. New blog goes up Friday, until then…SLAY on!

Validation: But What About Me?

Hey, we all love a little validation for a job well done, or a good deed, or just for being the best we can be right? It’s nice to feel appreciated, but when that validation becomes the only reason for doing something it becomes a problem. I’ve talked about how we shouldn’t do anything unless […]

Don’t Play Victim To The Circumstances You Created

We are all responsible for ourselves, we are responsible to not put ourselves in harm’s way, we are responsible to take the next right indicated action, we are responsible to not set ourselves up for failure. Now, there are times we just make the wrong decision, thinking it is the right one, and then there […]