Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Find the courage to tell your truth, every bit of it. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then… SLAY on!

Tell On Yourself So You Can Hear It

Before walking this path I hid a lot of things. And, as my disease progressed so did the list of secrets I was keeping. I was ashamed at how I was living my life and worked hard to keep what was going on from the people in my life, and that required keeping many things […]

Expressing Emotion Is A Strength Not A Character Flaw

Before walking this path the only emotion I ever expressed was anger. Anything else I stuffed down, covered up or numbed out. And usually that anger was really a smokescreen for getting caught doing something I shouldn’t have been doing, for being caught in a lie or not getting my own way. Of course, there […]

Shapeshifter

When I was very ill, it was obvious what needed to change in my life for me to get better, and once I removed that from my life my disease started to reach for other things that I could use to try to fill the void I felt inside, to soothe me or to try […]

You Can’t Mend If You Bend The Truth

When I finally found the courage to ask for help, I was told I was going to need to get rigorously honest with myself to get well. Even thought those words seemed scary to me I was at such a low I was willing to do anything, so I of course agreed and set out […]

Slayer Say

Good morning SLAYER! When we don’t speak our truth, what we keep inside has power over us, it controls us, keeps us in fear, isolation, anger, shame, and regret. When we share those secrets with others, those things that used to bind us to our past are set free, and we are released from the […]

Slayer Say

Good morning SLAYER! By hiding our true selves, or our truths, we prevent ourselves from moving forward, and connecting to those around us. Your life may depend on you sharing those things you think you need to hide, sharing them may be the key to unlock the gates you’ve built for yourself, and open you […]

We’re Only As Sick As Our Secrets

Secrets, we all have them, my whole life used to be a secret, I would hide what I was thinking and doing from everyone in my life, ashamed, confused, and angry. I kept everything inside and consequently became very sick, my secrets nearly cost me my life. And it was me, I had control of […]