positive mindset

An Arrow Can Only Be Shot by Pulling It Backwards

There’s a powerful lesson tucked inside one of life’s simplest metaphors: an arrow can only be launched by first being pulled backwards.

At first, that pull feels like resistance. Pressure. Setback. You’re yanked away from where you want to go, pulled into discomfort, frustration, and sometimes even pain. But the truth is this: without that tension, without that backward stretch, there is no forward release.

Life’s pullbacks are not punishments—they are preparation.

The key is to not get stuck staring at the ground when life pulls you back. Instead, steady yourself, take aim, and get ready. Because what feels like a setback now may be the very momentum that propels you toward something greater.

The Backward Pull Feels Personal

When life pulls us back, it rarely feels neutral. It feels personal.

The relationship ends. The job falls through. The opportunity disappears. Suddenly, it feels like life is conspiring against us, stripping away what we wanted most. And in the middle of that loss, it can feel impossible to see any kind of trajectory forward.

But here’s the truth: the arrow doesn’t know it’s being pulled back to soar further—it only feels the tension. And we’re the same way.

The backward pull of life is often the exact energy we need to realign, refocus, and prepare for a different kind of future.

Take Aim: Purpose in the Pause

An arrow doesn’t just fly aimlessly—it’s aimed. The backward pull isn’t random; it’s part of the process.

When life feels like it’s dragging you back, the invitation is to pause and take aim.

Ask yourself:

  • What am I being redirected toward?
  • What lessons am I meant to carry from this moment?
  • What strength am I building through this resistance?

Taking aim doesn’t mean you’ll have all the answers right away. It means you choose not to waste the pullback. You align yourself with purpose, even if the target feels blurry.

The Release: Trusting the Launch

When the arrow is finally released, it doesn’t hesitate. It doesn’t fight the momentum. It doesn’t question the trajectory. It simply flies.

That’s the moment you’ve been stretched for.

The release is the job that finally matches your calling, the relationship that respects your worth, the moment you realize your strength has carried you further than you thought possible. It’s not about erasing the pullback; it’s about realizing that every inch of that resistance fueled the flight.

The Power of Perspective

Pullbacks and setbacks will always come. But here’s the difference between staying stuck and soaring forward: perspective.

If you see the pullback as failure, you’ll stay grounded. If you see it as preparation, you’ll find the courage to aim higher.

Every backward tug is an opportunity to grow resilience, clarity, and faith. It’s proof that you’re still in motion—that life is stretching you for something greater.

Your Bow, Your Aim, Your Flight

Remember, you are both the archer and the arrow.

You get to choose:

  • Do you fight the pull and call it defeat?
  • Or do you trust the stretch, take aim, and let yourself fly?

The setbacks won’t define you. The release will.

So the next time life pulls you back, don’t panic. Don’t lose heart. Steady your grip. Breathe. Take aim. And get ready—because you are about to soar.

SLAY Reflection

  1. Where in your life right now do you feel like you’re being pulled backwards?
  2. How can you reframe that pullback as preparation instead of punishment?
  3. What’s one target you want to take aim at, even if it feels blurry today?
  4. How can you use resistance as fuel for your momentum?
  5. What would trusting the release look like for you?

S – See setbacks as setups, not endings
L – Let the pullback strengthen your aim
A – Align with purpose, not panic
Y – Yield to the release and trust your flight

Call to Action: Join the Conversation

I’d love to hear from you.
What pullback in your life ended up being the momentum you needed to soar?
Share your story in the comments. Let’s cheer each other on.

And if you know someone who feels stuck in a setback, send this to them.
Sometimes, all we need is a reminder that the stretch is preparing us for the flight.

Is There a Better Version of You?

There’s a quiet question that can either empower us or paralyze us: Is there a better version of me out there?

Sometimes, that question pushes us toward growth. Other times, it whispers like doubt, telling us we’ll never measure up. The truth is, the “better version” of you isn’t some unreachable ideal. It’s not a stranger waiting at the finish line. It’s you—already here—waiting to be uncovered, nurtured, and expressed.

The Trap of Perfection

For years, I lived in the shadow of “not enough.” No matter what I accomplished, there was always that voice in my head saying: You should be further along. You should be doing more. You should be better.

Maybe you know that voice too. It’s the one that thrives on comparison, that scrolls through social media and whispers that everyone else has it figured out. It’s the one that insists your worth depends on productivity, appearance, approval, or someone else’s validation.

But here’s the thing: chasing perfection keeps us running in circles. We’ll never outrun the feeling of not enoughness if we keep feeding it.

The better version of you isn’t about being flawless—it’s about being free. Free from the lies that keep you small. Free from the fear of being misunderstood. Free from the chains of perfectionism that whisper you can’t begin until you’ve “arrived.”

Better Doesn’t Mean Different

One of the biggest misconceptions is that becoming a “better you” means transforming into someone else entirely. That’s not true.

The better version of you doesn’t erase the current you—it includes you. It’s your lessons, your scars, your wins, and your setbacks, refined into wisdom. It’s not a makeover. It’s an unfolding.

Think of it this way: a diamond isn’t created by swapping out the rock for something else. It’s created by pressure, time, and patience. The diamond was always there.

The better version of you isn’t an invention. It’s a revelation.

Stop Asking If You’re Enough—Start Asking If You’re Aligned

When I was stuck in cycles of self-sabotage, I constantly asked: Am I enough? That question never brought peace. It only invited judgment.

But when I shifted the question to: Am I aligned? everything changed.

Alignment asks:

  • Am I living according to my values?
  • Am I showing up with integrity?
  • Am I honoring my energy instead of over-giving it away?

When we’re aligned, we stop obsessing over “better” and start focusing on truer. Because when you live in truth, growth is inevitable.

Growth Is Messy, Not Linear

I used to think self-improvement meant climbing a straight staircase, each step higher than the last. But growth? It’s more like a spiral. You circle back to old lessons, but each time you’re stronger, wiser, and better equipped.

Sometimes, the “better version” of you looks like setting boundaries. Sometimes it looks like falling apart and finally asking for help. Sometimes it looks like saying “no” without explanation.

Better doesn’t always look shiny. Sometimes it looks like survival. And that’s okay.

How to Step Into the Better Version of You

If you’re ready to shift from chasing perfection to uncovering your truth, here are some practices that helped me:

  1. Get Honest About Your Patterns
    Where do you keep tripping up? Are you people-pleasing? Overworking? Seeking approval? Honesty is the doorway to change.
  2. Redefine Success
    Instead of measuring success by how others see you, measure it by peace of mind, self-respect, and alignment with your values.
  3. Let Go of Comparisons
    Your journey is not supposed to look like anyone else’s. A flower doesn’t envy another flower—it blooms where it’s planted.
  4. Celebrate Small Wins
    Don’t wait until you’ve “arrived” to feel proud. Every step forward—no matter how small—is evidence of growth.
  5. Forgive the Old You
    The person you were made choices with the tools they had at the time. Forgive them. They carried you here.

The Better Version of You Already Exists

Here’s the truth: there is a better version of you. But it’s not waiting in some distant future. It’s already inside you, asking to be let out.

It’s the version that knows her worth without needing validation. The version that sets boundaries without guilt. The version that chooses peace over chaos, truth over performance, and alignment over approval.

The better version of you isn’t about becoming someone else—it’s about finally becoming yourself.

So the next time you catch yourself wondering if there’s a better you, remind yourself: Yes. And she’s already here.

SLAY Reflection

  1. What does the “better version” of you look like—not in appearance, but in energy, choices, and peace of mind?
  2. Where in your life are you still trying to chase perfection instead of alignment?
  3. What old patterns keep pulling you back—and what lessons are they asking you to learn?
  4. How can you forgive the past versions of yourself for what they didn’t know?
  5. What’s one small step you can take today to align with the truest version of you?

S – Stop comparing your growth to others
L – Let go of perfectionism and people-pleasing
A – Align your choices with your truth
Y – Yield to the better version of you already inside

Call to Action: Join the Conversation

I’d love to hear from you.
When did you realize there was a better version of you waiting inside—and what changed when you began to live it?
Share your story in the comments. Let’s cheer each other on.

And if you know someone who’s still chasing perfection, send this to them.
Sometimes, all we need is a reminder that better isn’t somewhere out there—it’s already inside.

Sometimes Happy Is a Feeling, Sometimes Happy Is a Choice

Let’s be honest: some days happiness wraps around you like a warm blanket. Other days, it’s a threadbare flag you have to raise yourself, even when the wind isn’t blowing.

Sometimes, happy arrives uninvited. A smile you didn’t expect. A moment of peace. Laughter that catches you by surprise. These are the days when joy feels natural. Effortless. When your heart feels light and your worries take a back seat. These are the days you wish you could bottle.

But what about the other days? The days when you wake up heavy, when your body aches with exhaustion, when your mind is cluttered and your heart is a storm cloud? What then?

That’s when happy becomes a choice. And yes, sometimes, it’s the hardest choice you can make.

Feel It When It Comes

We all have seasons where happiness seems to bloom everywhere—inside us and around us. These are the easy days. The ones where gratitude feels automatic, and your smile is real. And when those moments show up?

Let them.

Don’t question the joy. Don’t wait for the other shoe to drop. Let yourself feel good without guilt. You don’t have to earn happiness for it to be valid. It’s not a reward, it’s a gift. And you are allowed to receive it, just because you exist.

Too many of us hesitate to feel joy because we’re afraid it won’t last. But here’s the truth: happiness isn’t permanent, but it is powerful. And when it comes naturally, lean in. Let it soak into your skin.

Choose It When It Feels Out of Reach

And then there are the other days.

The days when happy feels like a stranger.

That’s when you make the choice to reach for it anyway. You choose to smile. To take a walk. To text a friend. To wash your hair. To play a song that makes you sway just a little. To say thank you, even when you’re not quite feeling it.

This isn’t toxic positivity. This is resilience. This is saying, “I know I feel low, but I’m going to plant the seeds of joy anyway.” And over time, those seeds bloom.

Happiness isn’t about denying what hurts. It’s about refusing to let the hurt define the whole day.

You Are Allowed to Want More

Here’s a powerful truth: you don’t have to settle. Not for a life that keeps you stuck. Not for a mindset that keeps you small. You are allowed to chase joy. To design a life that feels good on the inside, not just one that looks good from the outside.

And when you can’t find it? You can choose it. You can create it.

Even if that looks like a slow morning with coffee and quiet.

You are not failing if you have to fight for your happiness. That’s not weakness. That’s strength.

Some Days It’s Both

Sometimes happy is a breeze. Sometimes it’s a battle.

And sometimes, it’s a little bit of both.

Either way, you have the power to feel it, create it, or reach for it. You don’t have to wait for life to feel perfect before you allow yourself to be happy. Let it show up in small ways. Invite it in. And when it comes, don’t push it away.

You are allowed to feel good. You are allowed to choose good. You are allowed to live a life that includes joy.

Even on the hard days.

SLAY Reflection

  1. When was the last time you felt joy without effort? What triggered it?
  2. Do you feel guilty when you’re happy? Why?
  3. What’s one small way you could choose joy today?
  4. How can you remind yourself that happiness isn’t a reward?
  5. What would your day look like if you let joy take up more space?

S-L-A-Y:

  • See where joy naturally shows up in your day
  • Let yourself lean into those moments
  • Acknowledge the hard feelings, but don’t stay stuck in them
  • You have the power to choose happiness, even in small ways

Call to Action: Join the Conversation
I’d love to hear from you.
What does choosing happiness look like for you right now?
Share your story in the comments. Let’s cheer each other on.

And if you know someone who’s struggling to feel joy, send this to them.
Sometimes, all we need is a reminder.

No One Ever Injured Their Eyesight Looking At The Brightside

There is always a bright side. Sometimes, it may feel impossible to find—but it’s there if we look for it. Often, we don’t see it until later, when hindsight reveals that not getting what we thought we wanted brought something even better.

But here’s the thing: when we actively choose to seek out the good, the positive, the light—it trains our minds to keep looking. And eventually, it becomes second nature.

We are bombarded by fear and negativity every day. So why not choose the opposite? Why not be intentional about focusing on what’s working, what’s good, and what’s worth celebrating?

How I Found the Bright Side

Before I began walking this path, I lived in a negative world—one fueled by fear, shame, and pain.

The light didn’t last long in those days. I had fleeting moments of brightness, but the clouds of my own mind would roll in and dim it. I always defaulted to the worst-case scenario, and even when something good happened, I’d immediately brace for when it would be taken away.

My hope lived in superficial things—external markers I clung to like a lifeline. If something bright appeared, it was often a distraction rather than a shift. And because it wasn’t rooted in anything lasting, it never stuck around.

Recovery changed that. It taught me to start with gratitude. To look for moments of light. And when I couldn’t feel it? To write it down anyway. Even on my darkest days, I could find one thing. A kind word. A warm cup of coffee. A song I loved. Those small sparks reminded me that light is always there—we just have to invite it in.

Train Your Eyes to See the Light

Every day, we’re given a choice: focus on the fear or look for the light.

And as someone who has lived in both places, I can tell you—choosing the light is where everything changes.

It’s not about pretending things are perfect. It’s about deciding not to let the darkness win. It’s choosing to see that yes, things may be hard—but they’re not only hard.

The more we practice gratitude and look for the good, the more it shows up. That’s not magic—that’s mindset. And it’s powerful.

Be someone who looks for the bright side. And even better? Be someone who becomes the bright side for someone else.

Our light shines the brightest when we share it.

SLAY on.

SLAY Reflection: What Are You Choosing to See?

  • Do you tend to focus on the negative or look for the light? What habits shape that tendency?
  • Was there a time in your life when you struggled to find anything good? How did that affect your day-to-day experience?
  • What small moments of light have shown up for you recently? Did you notice them?
  • Has something you once saw as a disappointment turned out to be a blessing?
  • What could shift in your life if you committed to seeing the bright side—just once a day?

Call to Action: Join the Conversation

I’d love to hear from you.
What’s one way you’re choosing the bright side today—even when it would be easier to stay in the dark?
Share your story in the comments. Let’s cheer each other on.

And if you know someone who needs a little light right now, send this to them.
Sometimes, all we need is a reminder that it’s still there—waiting to be seen.

Living In Limbo

Before I began walking this path, I knew limbo well.

When I was living in my illness, I felt stuck. Paralyzed. Like life was moving forward around me while I stayed frozen in place. I wanted to believe I had no control, but the truth was—I was holding the key to my own cell.

I wasn’t taking action. I wasn’t doing the work. And when nothing changes, nothing changes.

Eventually, I reached a breaking point—and instead of breaking down, I reached out. I asked for help. I found support. I took one step, then another. Slowly, my life started to inch forward. Hope returned. Light returned. And I started to feel alive again.

Navigating the Now

I think of that time a lot lately.

Because while the world may feel paused again, I know I don’t have to be. I focus on what I can do each day to move things forward—mentally, emotionally, creatively, and spiritually. I pour energy into meaningful connections, creative projects, and quiet rituals that keep me grounded. I say yes to what feels good and nourishing, even if it’s just a cozy moment in pajamas with a good book.

Limbo doesn’t have to mean lifeless. We get to choose how we respond—and where we put our energy.

Yes, some days feel heavier than others. And yes, I still feel the ache of what’s been lost or put on hold. But I’ve learned that in this stillness, we also have an opportunity. To pause. To reflect. To renew. And to rise.

Limbo Isn’t the End

This chapter may feel uncertain, but it isn’t forever.

We can move forward—internally, emotionally, spiritually—even when the outside world feels stalled. Our gifts, our growth, our goals—they’re still here. They’re still possible.

And when the world begins to move again, we’ll be ready. Because we didn’t just wait—we used the pause to prepare.

SLAY on.

SLAY Reflection: What’s Your Relationship with Limbo?

  • Do you feel like your life is in limbo right now? How does that affect your daily mindset?
  • What small actions can help shift you out of a holding pattern?
  • Have you found new ways to connect, create, or rest during this time?
  • What unexpected lessons or strengths have emerged in this space between?
  • How can you show up for yourself today—even from a place of pause?

Call to Action: Join the Conversation

I’d love to hear from you.
How are you moving forward—even in the waiting?
Share your story in the comments. Let’s cheer each other on.

And if you know someone who’s feeling stuck in the pause, send this to them.
Sometimes, all we need is a reminder that we’re not standing still alone.

When Your Past Comes Back

I recently got a phone call from someone in the same industry as me—a person I’ve known for years. They called to say some kind things that truly meant a lot. But what triggered this call was a conversation they’d had with someone I used to consider a close friend.

This former friend had abruptly ended our friendship years ago when I confronted them about behavior I found troubling—putting ambition and personal gain above authentic relationships. Fast forward to now, and they were using my name to connect with people in the industry, as if we were still close. This wasn’t the first time I’d learned they were leveraging my name, but hearing it again stirred something deep inside me.

The Stirring of Old Wounds

At first, I was stunned. Then, the anger bubbled up. How dare they use my name after cutting me off? They had no right. But as my hands trembled and my mind raced with all the things I could say, I stopped.

I took a deep breath.

Here’s the truth: calling them out, lashing back—it wouldn’t change the past or make me feel better. In fact, it would likely pull me into a spiral of frustration and negativity. Instead, I simply told the caller the truth—that this person was no longer a part of my life. I kept it factual, free of venom. I trusted the person on the other end to connect the dots.

Choosing Light Over Darkness

Not long after, I was on a video call where this same person, my former friend, appeared. They made a point to say they were there because of me. I smiled tightly and said nothing. I realized then: the truth would reveal itself in time. It always does.

What I’ve learned on this path is to stay true to myself. It’s not about winning an argument or proving someone wrong. It’s about preserving my peace, keeping my side of the street clean, and focusing on what brings me light and joy.

Letting Go of the Scorecard

Life isn’t about keeping score. People will hurt us, sometimes deeply. But carrying those grievances around only weighs us down. Every time we dwell on them, we feed the darkness instead of the light.

I’ve learned that when someone tries to pull me back into old wounds, I can choose to let go. I can choose to focus on what fills me with light. I can refuse to be dragged down a path that dims my soul.

Moving Forward with Strength

We all face moments when our past rears its head. The question is: how do we respond? Do we pick up the bitterness, or do we lay it down and walk away?

I choose to walk forward, with grace, resilience, and an unwavering commitment to my own well-being.

SLAY on.

SLAY OF THE DAY: Reflect & Rise

  • Have you ever confronted someone about an old hurt? How did that feel?

  • If you felt relief at the moment, did it last? Or did it leave you feeling hollow?

  • Do you find it hard to let things go, or do you feel pulled to dive back in?

  • How do you feel after going back—empowered or depleted?

  • Can you shift your focus to the present and release the chains of the past?

The past is a weight we don’t need to carry. Set yourself free today.

Call to Action: Join the Conversation

I’d love to hear from you.
What’s one way you’ve chosen light over darkness in your past?
Share your story in the comments. Let’s cheer each other on.

And if you know someone who’s struggling to let go of an old hurt, send this to them.
Sometimes, all we need is a gentle reminder: we have the power to move forward.

Be The Attitude You Want To Be Around

We’ve all felt it—that lift you get from someone’s positive energy. The kind of vibe that makes a room feel warmer, lighter, better. We seek it out, gravitate toward it, and sometimes, we depend on it. But here’s a truth that changed everything for me:

Instead of waiting to be around the energy you want, be it.

Don’t get me wrong—we need good people in our lives. Community, support, and encouragement are vital. But real change happens when you stop outsourcing your attitude—and start showing up as the person you wish you could find.

I Wasn’t Always That Person

When I was deep in my darkness, I avoided positive people. They annoyed me. I didn’t trust their joy. I assumed it was fake. And, if I’m being honest, I didn’t want them to see the way I was living.

But beneath all that judgment was jealousy.

I admired them. I just didn’t believe I could ever be like them.

Recovery taught me otherwise.

It showed me that joy can be genuine. That light isn’t fake—it’s earned. And I could earn it, too.

So I made a promise to myself: I would become the person I wanted to be around.

Not overnight. But one day at a time.

Give What You Wish to Get

In the beginning, I didn’t feel like I had much to offer. I was still shaky, still figuring it out. But someone reminded me:

Even if you’re just a few steps in, you’ve got something to share.

Because someone else is just starting out. And to them, you might look like a mile ahead.

So I showed up. I told the truth. I dropped the act and chose transparency. And little by little, I built trust in myself by being accountable, being honest, and shifting from asking, “What can I get?” to “What can I give?”

And I found that even on my worst days, if I could help someone else, it helped me too.

Sometimes, two bad days colliding can spark one good one.

Attitude Is Energy

Gratitude was a big part of this shift. When I started focusing on what I had instead of what I lacked, everything changed.

Even the hard things didn’t feel impossible anymore—because I wasn’t tackling them alone. I learned to ask for help. That was huge for me.

Asking for help didn’t make me weak. It made me real.

And in asking, I often gave someone else the gift of showing up. We got closer. We built something.

Because we all need help sometimes.

Become the Energy You Admire

Think about the attitudes you’re drawn to. What do you admire in others? What kind of energy lifts you up?

Now ask yourself:

What if that’s already inside of me?

What if the very thing you’re craving is something you’re meant to cultivate and share?

Start there. Be that. You might just find your truest self waiting on the other side.

SLAY Reflection

Ask yourself:

  • What attitude or energy am I most drawn to?
  • Do I embody that energy—or just chase it in others?
  • What’s stopping me from becoming that kind of person?
  • How can I use gratitude and service to shift my own energy?
  • What’s one small step I can take today to be the vibe I want to be around?

S – L – A – Y

S: See the energy you admire in others.
L: Listen to how your own attitude shows up.
A: Act in alignment with the energy you want to attract.
Y: Yield to your inner strength—it’s always been there.

Call to Action: Join the Conversation
I’d love to hear from you.
What’s the attitude you want to be around—and how are you choosing to embody it in your own life?
Share your story in the comments. Let’s cheer each other on.

And if you know someone who’s working on becoming their best self, send this to them.
Sometimes, all we need is a nudge.

Results vs. Rewards

Before I started this journey, I was very rewards-oriented. If I did something nice for someone, I expected something in return—or at the very least, an acknowledgment of my good deed. And if I didn’t get that, I’d hold onto one heck of a resentment. I wouldn’t say anything about it until I could throw a zinger at them later—a quick-witted one-liner meant to sting.

I was good at those, too. I even prided myself on them.

I thought if I did the right thing, the universe owed me something good in return. But it rarely worked that way. Because when you go into a situation with an expectation, you’re not going in with a pure heart—or the right frame of mind.

Doing It for the Right Reasons

I’ve talked about this before: we should never enter into anything unless we want to do it—and don’t expect anything in return.

Oh, that’s right. That’s the only reason to do anything. Because you want to. Period.

It’s the only way to keep your intentions pure. It’s the only way not to be let down when your expectations aren’t met.

When I’m having a challenging day—or I’m just plain grumpy—it happens. I’ll do something nice for someone without them knowing. It could be paying for someone’s coffee or putting money in a meter that’s about to expire. It might be something bigger. But the point is, I do it without expecting a reward.

But here’s the twist: we do get something in return. A result. And a result is far more important than a reward.

Esteemable Acts Build Self-Esteem

Sure, it’s nice to get a reward. I think we can all agree. But if that’s your sole purpose for doing something, you’re going to be disappointed—often.

It’s the result of doing something that truly matters. When we do esteemable acts, we build self-esteem. We begin to like who we are, respect who we are, and learn to trust who we are.

I had to learn this when I made the choice to get better. I had to make a conscious decision to practice it each day.

It felt strange at first—to do something nice without the other person knowing. I was told that if they found out, it didn’t count and I’d have to find something else. So, I turned it into a little game. Like a positive secret.

I used the same cleverness I once used to manipulate people to figure out how to do something kind without them finding out it was me. It actually became fun. And the more I looked for those moments, the more I found them.

The result? My mind stayed positive because I was looking for positive things to do. And that kept me living in the light. No reward could do that for me. A reward might shine a light on me temporarily, but it wouldn’t keep the light on in my life day after day.

Choosing the Path of Growth

We live in a world that’s very reward-oriented. It’s easy to fall into the expectation of getting something for doing something.

But we SLAYERS are better than that.

We’re about growth, learning, and striving to do better. What we want are results.

Results that help us build a strong foundation. Results that keep us on the right path, doing the right things, and remembering why we’re doing them.

Esteemable acts build self-esteem. They help us shed the feeling of being “less-than” or deficient. They quiet those negative voices because we’re not just doing what’s best for us—we’re also considering those around us.

SLAY on.

SLAY OF THE DAY: Reflect & Rise

Do you do things and expect a reward? What happens if you don’t get one, or aren’t acknowledged for your good deed?

Do you feel negatively toward that person? What if you didn’t expect a reward? What if you just did good things to do them—without expecting anything in return?

I challenge you, SLAYER, to do three good things for three different people this week without them knowing. If they find out, it doesn’t count, and you’ll need to find something else.

Write down how you feel after doing them. Then write down how you feel compared to before you did them.

Keep going, SLAYER. When we look for the good, we find the good.

Call to Action: Join the Conversation

I’d love to hear from you.
What’s one small act of kindness you’re committing to this week—just because?
Share your thoughts and stories in the comments. Let’s inspire each other to keep growing.

And if you know someone who could use this message, share it with them.
Sometimes, the best rewards come from giving freely.