acceptance

Some People Come Into Your Life to Teach You How to Let Go

There are people you meet who feel like they’re meant to stay forever. People you pour into, fight for, grow with, or dream alongside. And yet, despite all of that hope and history, they don’t stay. They can’t. They weren’t meant to.

It’s painful to admit that not every person who walks into your life is meant to stay in it. But there’s a deeper truth beneath that loss — some people come into your life to teach you how to let go.

Letting go is not something we’re taught. It’s something we learn the hard way. Through heartbreak. Through disappointment. Through the quiet ache of expectations that were never met. But letting go is also one of the greatest skills you will ever learn, because it frees you to live in alignment with your truth instead of your attachments.

This is a lesson that becomes clearer the farther you get from the moment you thought would break you. With time and healing, you realize: letting go wasn’t a punishment — it was preparation.

When Holding On Hurts More Than Letting Go

We often cling to people long after their role in our lives has ended. Maybe it’s because they once made us feel seen. Maybe it’s because we fear the emptiness they’ll leave behind. Maybe it’s because we’re trying to recreate a version of ourselves we once were.

But there is a cost to holding on past the expiration of a connection. It drains your energy. It blurs your boundaries. It keeps you anchored in a past that can’t move with you into your future.

Letting go doesn’t mean the relationship was meaningless. It means the chapter has closed.

Some people aren’t meant to walk your whole path with you — they are meant to walk you to the point where you learn to walk it on your own.

Every Person Is Either a Lesson or a Mirror

When someone enters your life, they bring something with them:
A lesson.
A mirror.
A wound.
A truth.

Some people remind you what you deserve.
Others remind you what you should never accept again.
Some teach you how to love.
Others teach you when to leave.
And some teach you the most transformative lesson of all — how to release something that is no longer aligned with who you are becoming.

No lesson is wasted. Even the painful ones refine you, shape you, strengthen you. They teach you what your heart can survive and what your spirit can rise from.

Letting Go Is an Act of Self-Love

We tend to think letting go is something that happens to us. But in truth, letting go is something we choose. It is an act of self-respect. A declaration of alignment. A bold reclaiming of your peace.

Letting go says:
I deserve reciprocity.
I deserve honesty.
I deserve presence.
I deserve the kind of connection that nurtures me, not drains me.

Letting go is not the closing of your heart — it is the opening of your life to what is meant for you.

When you hold on to someone who isn’t choosing you, you abandon yourself in the process. When you let go, you return to yourself.

Sometimes Letting Go Is the Lesson You Needed Most

Think of the people you’ve released — gently or painfully, slowly or suddenly. What did you learn from their presence? And what did you learn from their absence?

Maybe you learned the difference between attachment and connection.
Maybe you learned how strong you can be by walking away.
Maybe you learned to stop begging for the bare minimum.
Or maybe you learned that losing them wasn’t losing yourself — it was finding yourself.

Some people leave because their lesson is complete.
Some people leave because you’ve outgrown the version of yourself that once needed them.
And some people leave because life has something far better waiting for you.

Letting go makes space for what your heart is truly calling in.

How to Let Go With Grace Instead of Guilt

Letting go doesn’t always come naturally — especially if you are someone who loves deeply, empathizes easily, or tries to fix what isn’t yours to fix. Here are ways to release with compassion:

1. Accept the truth instead of the potential.

You can’t love someone’s potential into reality. You can only love what is true today.

2. Stop rewriting their actions to protect your hope.

People show you who they are through their consistency. Believe what is being shown.

3. Let the goodbye be a boundary, not a punishment.

You’re not being cruel. You’re choosing peace.

4. Release the story you created about what this person was supposed to be.

The attachment often hurts more than the reality.

5. Trust that letting go won’t leave you empty — it will leave you open.

Everything you release creates space for what’s aligned.

The more you practice letting go, the more you learn that letting go is not a loss — it is liberation.

SLAY Reflection

  1. Who taught you a lesson simply by leaving your life?
  2. What relationship are you holding onto that no longer supports your growth?
  3. What fear comes up when you think about letting go?
  4. How would your life expand if you released what’s draining you?
  5. What does honoring your future self look like in this situation?
  • S – Surrender what no longer aligns with your growth
  • L – Let the lesson guide you, not the loss
  • A – Allow your future to open, unburdened
  • Y – Yield to your peace and trust the release

Call to Action: Join the Conversation

I’d love to hear from you.
Who came into your life to teach you the art of letting go — and what did that lesson reveal about you?
Share your story in the comments. Let’s cheer each other on.

And if you know someone who’s holding on to something — or someone — that’s hurting them, send this to them.
Sometimes, all we need is a reminder that letting go is not the end. It’s the beginning.

When Someone’s Best Isn’t Enough

It’s one of the hardest truths to face: sometimes people’s best simply isn’t enough for us.

Not because they don’t care. Not because they’re bad people. But because what they’re capable of giving — emotionally, mentally, spiritually — falls short of what we need to feel seen, loved, or safe.

And that’s where the real heartbreak often lies — not in what was done to us, but in what wasn’t.

Redefining “Their Best”

When we say someone “did their best,” we often mean they tried. They gave what they had to give — based on their awareness, their upbringing, their capacity, their trauma, or their understanding of love.

But here’s the reality: trying doesn’t always meet our expectations.

Someone’s best effort might still look careless. Their version of love might still feel like neglect. Their attempt at honesty might still come across as half-truths and avoidance.

And that’s not because they didn’t try — it’s because their version of “best” comes from where they are, not where we hoped they’d be.

You can love someone deeply and still recognize that their best doesn’t align with your needs. That realization isn’t judgment — it’s clarity.

You Can Acknowledge Effort and Still Acknowledge the Pain

We often feel guilty admitting we’re hurt when someone “meant well.” But intention and impact are two very different things.

You can appreciate the effort and still acknowledge the wound.

You can say, “I know you did your best, but it still hurt me.”

Because emotional maturity isn’t about excusing behavior — it’s about accepting reality.

Sometimes, their best will never meet the version of love, care, or communication you need. And that doesn’t make you ungrateful — it makes you honest about what’s healthy for you.

Compassion Without Compromise

Here’s where the real growth happens: when you learn to hold compassion without self-betrayal.

You can have empathy for someone’s limitations and still set boundaries.

You can understand their story without living inside it.

You can see their pain and still choose to protect your peace.

Compassion says, “I see why you are the way you are.”
Boundaries say, “But I can’t let that continue to harm me.”

Both can exist together. That’s what it means to love without losing yourself.

Stop Waiting for Them to Change

So many of us stay in relationships — romantic, familial, or otherwise — waiting for people to finally give us the version of love we’ve been hoping for.

But sometimes, that version doesn’t exist for them.

If someone’s “best” is rooted in avoidance, control, or emotional unavailability, no amount of waiting will transform it. You can’t heal what someone refuses to see.

And your worth isn’t measured by how long you can endure someone’s limitations.

The truth is, you don’t need to be mad at them — you just need to stop expecting more from someone who’s shown you their limit.

Acceptance doesn’t mean you agree with their behavior. It means you finally believe it.

Letting Go of the Fantasy

Part of maturity is grieving the version of someone you hoped they’d become.

We hold onto potential because it gives us hope. But potential is not the same as partnership, love, or consistency.

When we fall in love with potential, we fall in love with who they could be, not who they are.

And that’s not fair to them — or to us.

Letting go means releasing the fantasy. It means saying, “I accept that this is your best, and I also accept that it’s not enough for me.”

That’s not cruelty. That’s self-respect.

When It’s Time to Choose You

You don’t have to hate someone to walk away.

You can love them, wish them healing, and still know that staying would mean betraying yourself.

Sometimes the most loving thing you can do — for both of you — is to stop expecting someone to meet you where they can’t.

Because every time you lower your standards to match someone’s capacity, you also lower your connection to your own worth.

Choosing yourself isn’t selfish. It’s sacred.

It’s not about giving up on people — it’s about not giving up on you.

How to Accept Someone’s Best — and Still Move Forward

1. Stop rewriting their story.
Believe what they’ve shown you, not what you’ve imagined.

2. Separate compassion from tolerance.
You can care about someone without accepting behavior that hurts you.

3. Grieve the loss of what could’ve been.
It’s okay to mourn the potential you saw — that’s part of healing.

4. Decide what “enough” means for you.
Clarity comes when you stop measuring your needs against someone else’s capacity.

5. Release with grace.
Closure doesn’t always come through a conversation. Sometimes it comes through peace.

SLAY Reflection

  1. Who in your life has given their best — and what did that reveal to you about your needs?
  2. Have you ever mistaken someone’s effort for alignment?
  3. What expectations are you holding onto that might be keeping you stuck?
  4. How can you offer compassion without losing your boundaries?
  5. What would choosing yourself look like right now?
  • S – See the difference between effort and alignment
  • L – Let go of what no longer meets your needs
  • A – Accept others without abandoning yourself
  • Y – Yield to peace, not potential

Call to Action: Join the Conversation

I’d love to hear from you.
Have you ever realized that someone’s best just wasn’t enough for you? How did you find peace with that truth?
Share your story in the comments. Let’s cheer each other on.

And if you know someone struggling to let go of unmet expectations, send this to them.
Sometimes, understanding that their best isn’t your best is the first step to freedom.

Learning to Love the Thing You Wish Hadn’t Happened

There are moments in life that split time in two.

There’s before it happened.
And there’s after it happened.

And sometimes, that “it” is something you would give anything to erase. A betrayal. A loss. A mistake. A failure. Something that shook you so deeply that, even years later, you still catch yourself saying, “If only that had never happened…”

I’ve been there. More than once.

For a long time, I believed the only way to be truly happy again was to go back—back to the way things were before the pain, before the fallout, before the day that changed everything. But the truth is, there is no going back. There’s only forward. And learning to move forward doesn’t mean pretending it didn’t hurt, or even pretending you’re glad it happened.

It means learning to love what it taught you.

It means finding peace in the fact that this unwanted thing—this thing you thought would break you—has also shaped you into the version of yourself you are now.

The Lie We Tell Ourselves About “If Only”

When something painful happens, our minds get stuck in loops. We replay conversations. We imagine different choices. We rewrite endings that never came.

It’s a way of bargaining with reality: If only it hadn’t happened, I’d be happier. If only it hadn’t happened, I’d be whole.

But here’s the truth no one wants to admit—those loops keep us chained to the very thing we want freedom from. Every time we run through the “if only” scenario, we hand over our present to a past we cannot change.

And if we’re not careful, we start defining ourselves by the wound instead of the healing.

What It Really Means to Love the Thing You Wish Hadn’t Happened

Loving what you wish hadn’t happened doesn’t mean excusing it, approving of it, or romanticizing pain. It’s not toxic positivity, and it’s not saying, “Everything happens for a reason” as a way to shut down your feelings.

It’s about recognizing that you did survive it. That it’s part of your story. And that by accepting it instead of resisting it, you can take back your power.

When you love what you wish hadn’t happened, you’re saying:

  • “I see what this taught me, even if I never wanted the lesson.”
  • “I won’t let this moment define my future in a way that keeps me small.”
  • “I can carry this with me without letting it weigh me down.”

That shift—acceptance over resistance—is where freedom begins.

Turning Pain Into Purpose

If I look back at my own life, the moments I once wished away have given me some of my greatest strengths.

The heartbreak that shattered me? It taught me how to listen to my intuition.

The loss that felt unbearable? It taught me to love harder and to cherish the present.

The mistake I swore I’d never recover from? It humbled me, made me more compassionate, and connected me to people I never would have met otherwise.

When you learn to love what you wish hadn’t happened, you’re essentially mining your pain for gold. You’re pulling the wisdom from the rubble. You’re saying, “If I have to carry this, I will make sure it makes me stronger.”

Choosing to See the Gift

This is the hardest part—seeing the gift in the thing you never wanted.

Sometimes the gift isn’t obvious. It’s not wrapped neatly with a bow. It might take years before you see how something awful set the stage for something better.

But I believe this: Every wound has the potential to be the very thing that builds your wings.

That doesn’t happen automatically. It happens when you choose to look for the lessons. When you decide that your story will not end in tragedy, but in transformation.

You Don’t Have to Like It to Learn From It

There’s a misconception that acceptance means approval. It doesn’t. You can still hate what happened. You can still grieve it, still wish it had been different.

Acceptance is simply saying, “It happened. I can’t change that. But I can choose how I live with it.”

And sometimes, “living with it” means integrating it into your story in a way that honors your growth instead of your grief.

From Scar to Strength

Your pain is not who you are.

It’s part of your story, but it’s not your identity. The thing you wish hadn’t happened might always sting a little, but with time, the sting fades, and the scar becomes proof—not of what hurt you, but of what couldn’t break you.

When you reach the point where you can love that scar, when you can look at it and think, That’s where I grew the most, you’ve taken back what was stolen from you.

That’s when the thing you once wished away becomes the thing that shaped you into the person you were always meant to be.

SLAY Reflection

  1. What’s one event in your life you still wish had never happened?
  2. How has holding onto resistance kept you tied to it?
  3. What’s one strength, lesson, or relationship you have today because of it?
  4. How would your life look if you could accept it fully?
  5. What’s one small step you can take this week toward making peace with it?

S – Stop replaying the “if only” loop
L – Look for the lessons, even if they’re small
A – Accept that it’s part of your story, not all of it
Y – Yield to the growth it’s given you

Call to Action: Join the Conversation

I’d love to hear from you.
What’s one thing you wish had never happened—and how has it unexpectedly shaped you for the better?
Share your story in the comments. Let’s cheer each other on.

And if you know someone who’s stuck wishing they could erase the past, send this to them.
Sometimes, all we need is a nudge.

Let Them

This one hits close to home.
Because for a long time, I didn’t know how to let people be who they are.
I was always trying to manage, to steer, to shape the outcome I wanted.
Even when it was wrapped in good intentions, it was still control.

The truth is, trying to change someone—whether it’s their behavior, their choices, or how they show up—only leaves you drained, resentful, and disappointed.
Why? Because it’s not your job.
It never was.

The moment I truly understood that…
The moment I stopped trying to micromanage other people’s lives, reactions, or growth…
Was the moment I started finding peace.

The Mindset Shift That Changed Everything

Let them.

Let them say what they want.
Let them make their choices.
Let them believe what they believe.
Let them walk away—or come back—or stay exactly the same.

Because it’s not your responsibility to make someone become who you want them to be.
And it’s not your failure when they don’t.

The need to control others is often rooted in fear.
Fear of abandonment.
Fear of chaos.
Fear that if someone doesn’t change, you won’t be okay.

But guess what?
You will be okay.
Because your peace, your healing, your worth—none of it depends on someone else getting it right.

Expectations Are Heavy

Most of us don’t realize how much energy we spend trying to get someone to meet our expectations.
We want them to act differently, to love better, to show up the way we imagined they would.

And when they don’t?
We get frustrated.
We get hurt.
We spiral.

But here’s the uncomfortable truth:
They never agreed to those expectations.

They’re being who they are.
And we’re the ones trying to rewrite their character in our story.

What if instead of trying to change them—we just let them?

Letting Go Is a Boundary

“Let them” isn’t passive.
It’s powerful.

It’s not about giving up.
It’s about letting go of what was never yours to hold in the first place.

Let them be who they are—so you can stay rooted in who you are.

It’s a boundary.
A decision to protect your energy by not chasing down someone else’s growth.

When you stop investing in the outcome you wish for and start accepting the truth of what is, you reclaim your power.

You also make space for people who can meet you where you are.
Who choose to show up.
Who don’t need to be changed, convinced, or coerced.

Peace Lives in Acceptance

Let them believe the lie.
Let them ghost you.
Let them not understand your heart.
Let them leave the group chat.
Let them love someone else.
Let them misunderstand you.
Let them think they’re right.
Let them talk behind your back.

And while they do?

Let yourself grow.
Let yourself feel.
Let yourself heal.
Let yourself move on.
Let yourself love without attachment.
Let yourself stay soft and strong at the same time.

You are not here to force alignment.
You are here to be aligned—with yourself.

SLAY Reflection: Where Are You Holding On Too Tightly?

  1. Who in your life are you trying to manage, fix, or control?
    What are you hoping to change—and why?
  2. How has that effort affected your peace, energy, or self-worth?
    What are you losing in the process?
  3. What would it look like to “let them” be exactly who they are?
    What fear comes up when you consider that?
  4. How can you create a boundary that protects your energy without trying to change theirs?
    What could you gain by stepping back?
  5. What’s one relationship or situation where “letting them” would bring you more emotional freedom?
    How can you start that shift today?

Call to Action: Join the Conversation

I’d love to hear from you.
What’s one way you’ve learned to let someone be who they are—and how did that shift your peace?
Share your story in the comments. Let’s cheer each other on.

And if you know someone who’s holding on too tightly, send this to them.
Sometimes, all we need is a nudge.

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYERS! You can’t control the wind but you can adjust your sails.

SLAY on!
In A Storm

Today I Will Not Stress Over Things I Cannot Control

Easier said than done, right?
Especially now.
It feels like everything—from the world at large to our daily lives—is spiraling beyond our control.

And it’s true: most of life really is outside of our hands.
No matter how hard we try to will something into existence or change an outcome, some things just are.
But here’s the truth I’ve come to live by:
I may not be able to control what happens around me—but I can control how I respond to it.
And that’s where the power is.

The Illusion of Control

When I was living in the dark, I was consumed by control.
Trying to manage everything and everyone.
Manipulating, bargaining, obsessing—believing that if I could just control the situation, I could finally feel safe.

But no matter how hard I tried, life had other plans.
It didn’t care how hard I worked to bend it to my will.
And I exhausted myself trying.

The more I tried to control, the more unmanageable everything became.
It didn’t just wear me out—it wore me down.
My mental health suffered.
My self-worth took a hit.
And I lost myself in the process.

Letting Go Was the Turning Point

When I finally made the decision to change my life, I was told something that made me flinch:
“You have to accept that you can’t control everything.”

That one sentence lit up every fear I had.
I didn’t want to hear it.
But I needed to.

Because as terrifying as letting go felt, holding on was doing more damage.

So I started small.
I worked on myself.
I practiced gratitude.
I focused on the good.
And I gave back where I could.

Slowly, the need to control started to loosen its grip.
And I began to feel something I hadn’t felt in a long time: peace.

The Freedom in Acceptance

Letting go doesn’t mean giving up.
It means accepting reality as it is—and choosing to move forward anyway.
It means doing what you can, where you are, with what you have.

It means focusing on your choices, your behavior, your energy—not the chaos around you.

And when you feel that old need for control creeping in?
Put the focus back on yourself.
Or do something kind for someone else.
It’s a powerful reset.

Because the truth is, trying to control what’s out of your hands only ends up controlling you.

What I Can Do Today

There are still plenty of things I can’t control—and many of them deeply disturb me.
But I’ve learned that obsessing over what I can’t change doesn’t help.

What does help?
Doing what I can.

I show up for myself.
I show up for others.
I make better choices.
And I leave the rest.

Because acceptance isn’t giving up—it’s breaking free.

SLAY Reflection: Where Are You Holding On Too Tight?

  1. Do you stress over things that are out of your control?
    What are they—and how do they affect your peace?

  2. How has your need for control shaped your relationships, habits, or mental health?
    What patterns do you see?

  3. What’s one area of your life where you could let go a little more today?
    How would that feel?

  4. What are you really afraid of when you try to control everything?
    Is it fear of failure? Rejection? Uncertainty?

  5. What would shift if you focused on your response, rather than the outcome?
    Where can you put your energy to use in a healthier way?

Call to Action: Join the Conversation

I’d love to hear from you.
What’s one thing you’re ready to stop stressing over because you’ve realized it’s out of your control?
Share your story in the comments. Let’s cheer each other on.

And if you know someone who’s stuck in the loop of control and frustration, send this to them.
Sometimes, all we need is a nudge.

A Pickle Can’t Go Back To Being A Cucumber

There were so many times—when I was living in my darkness—that I wished I could turn back time. Every day felt heavier. My shame grew deeper, my self-hatred stronger, and my life more out of control. I remember wondering how I ended up in such a place, feeling trapped and defeated. And instead of taking action, I relied on wishful thinking, hoping things would magically return to the way they once were.

But as they say: a pickle can’t go back to being a cucumber.

You Can’t Go Back

Life moves forward, whether we do or not. Time doesn’t stop just because we’re stuck. We can’t undo the past, and we can’t relive the glory days we once knew. No amount of hoping, wishing, or romanticizing will turn back the clock.

What we can do is choose to grow from where we are now. We can become the best version of who we are today. We might not be able to go back to who we were before, but we can become someone even stronger—someone wiser, more resilient, and more alive because of what we’ve walked through.

When I stopped trying to return to the past and started showing up for the present, everything changed. I started building the life I wanted—not by undoing what was, but by creating what could be.

From Regret to Renewal

In the beginning, I had to learn how to be okay with discomfort. Letting go of the past and embracing the present wasn’t easy. I had to shift my mindset, stop reliving old memories, and set new goals for myself. I had to trust that I could heal, evolve, and become someone I hadn’t even imagined yet.

And you know what? I did.

Today, I live in forward motion. I know I can’t be who I was before, but I can be someone better. I’ve learned to love the journey—even when it’s messy. Because forward is the direction of growth. It’s where joy, healing, and new beginnings live.

We don’t need to be cucumbers again. We just need to be the best damn pickles we can be.

SLAY on.

SLAY Reflection: Embrace the Now

  • Do you spend time wishing for the past? Why?
  • What are you holding onto that’s keeping you stuck?
  • What parts of your past could you reframe as lessons?
  • What can you do today to move forward—just one step?
  • How might your life change if you focused on who you’re becoming, not who you used to be?

Call to Action: Join the Conversation

I’d love to hear from you.
What’s one way you can let go of the past and move forward today?
Share your story in the comments. Let’s cheer each other on.

And if you know someone who keeps looking back, send this to them.
Sometimes, all we need is a reminder that the best is yet to come.

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! There are two kinds of days: good days, and character builders.

SLAY on!

Chapter 20

Find Your OK Without Giving Away Your Power

We all want people, places, and things to go our way.
We imagine how life should look, how others should act—and when things don’t line up with that vision, we get unsettled.
Sometimes we unravel.

But here’s the truth:
If you need someone else to act a certain way so you can be OK… you’ve given away your power.

We cannot control the world around us.
We can only control how we show up in it.

Control, Acceptance, and That False Sense of Safety

Back when I was living in the dark—emotionally, mentally, spiritually—my life felt completely unmanageable. I was spiraling, yet I still expected everything around me to bend in my favor. If things didn’t go how I wanted, I panicked. If people didn’t say or do what I thought they should, I spun out.

So I tried to control what I couldn’t:
People.
Places.
Situations.
Emotions.
Outcomes.

Spoiler: It never worked.
And it only made me feel worse.

When we tether our mental wellness to the actions of others, we’re setting ourselves up for disappointment, resentment, and chaos. True stability doesn’t come from control—it comes from acceptance.

Pause. Then Take Right Action.

Today, when I feel disturbed, I pause.

I ask myself:

  • What’s actually going on?

  • What do I need to do for me?

  • Is there any action to take?

  • Or is this something I need to let go?

That pause is everything.

Because if I haven’t checked in with myself—if I haven’t done the inner work first—any action I take outwardly might come from fear, ego, or unmet expectations.

Feelings aren’t facts.
And reactions aren’t always truth.

I’ve learned that when I find my center—when I root myself in clarity and self-love—I no longer need everyone else to behave a certain way for me to be OK.
I become OK because I’ve chosen to be.

You Are Not the Center of the Universe (And That’s a Good Thing)

Sometimes we resist change because it feels personal.
Unfair.
Uncomfortable.

But growth rarely happens in comfort.
And what doesn’t feel good in the moment might be the very shift that leads to a better outcome—not just for us, but for the collective.

That’s humbling.

We’re not the center of the universe—but we are a part of something bigger. And when we stop trying to bend life to our will, we open ourselves up to learning, connection, and peace.

Your Peace Is Your Responsibility

Here’s what I know:
No one else is responsible for your OK.

Not your partner.
Not your friends.
Not your boss.
Not your timeline.
Not your past.

You are.

When we find peace within ourselves, the chaos around us loses its power. We stop being reactive. We become responsive. We make room for grace. For learning. For love.

So don’t hand over your peace to anyone else.
Take it back.
Hold it close.
Let that be your anchor.

SLAY on.

SLAY OF THE DAY: Reflect & Rise

Do you need others to act a certain way for you to feel OK?

  • How does that show up in your life?

  • Where do you think that need comes from?

  • How has that pursuit held you back or caused pain?

  • What could shift if you found your OK within yourself?

  • What practices help you find peace regardless of what’s happening around you?

Let go of the grip. Let in the grace. Find your center—then carry it with you, wherever you go.

Call to Action: Join the Conversation

I’d love to hear from you.
How have you learned to find peace within yourself—especially when life around you is messy?
Share your story in the comments. Let’s cheer each other on.

And if you know someone who’s struggling to feel OK in a world they can’t control, send this their way.
Sometimes, we all need the reminder that we already have what we need inside us.

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Patience is the acceptance that things can happen in a different order than what you had in mind.

New blog goes up Friday, until then… SLAY on!

State Of Slay Patient Heart