Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! To show your weakness is to show your strength. New blog goes up Sunday, until then… SLAY on!

The Language Of The Heart

I was recently speaking to someone about truth, that place inside of us where there are no walls, no masks, no hiding, that place where we allow ourselves to be vulnerable and let that vulnerability speak to someone else’s vulnerability, that, to me, is the language of the heart, one heart to speaking to another. […]

Your Bad Behavior Doesn’t Give Me Permission For My Bad Behavior

Some of us never grow out of that playground mentality from our childhood, that if someone hits you, you get to hit them back. I know when I was living in the dark, especially when I was feeling my worst, I would hope someone would act out and invite me to do the same, I’d […]

Write A Letter Of Forgiveness To Your Younger Self

When I new on this path and I was struggling with the realization of the place I found myself, the choices I had made, and the harm I had done to myself, it was suggested to me that I write a letter apologizing to my younger self. That suggestion stopped me in my tracks. The […]

When Others Inject Their Fear Into Your Life

It takes a lot of courage to go after your dreams. To share yourself with the world, a piece of you, something that has come from your heart and your soul. Many times we walk on new ground to get to a place we’ve never been and that leaves us feeling vulnerable. We would think […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYERS! You may be imperfect, but you are worthy of belonging and love. New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!

Worthy Of Love

I find myself in a place I’ve never been. A place I don’t think I thought I would ever be in. A place that is new, where I am vulnerable, and I’ve been, and am vulnerable, but this is a new kind of vulnerability, a good kind, a sweet kind, a kind I should be, […]

Tough vs. Strong

Before stepping on this path I used to think tough and strong were interchangeable. I thought they meant the same thing. I had been through a lot in my life and I considered myself tough. I wore that like a badge of honor, but what I didn’t realize that what I was so proud of […]

Why Fit In When You Were Meant To Stand Out

When I was growing up I just wanted to blend in. Standing out meant there were going to be too many eyes on me, and God forbid, possibly questions. I hated myself and the last thing I wanted was someone looking in my direction because they might see what I saw. It took me a […]