When I was sick I was afraid of silence. Silence for me back then was anything but silent, when things were quiet my head was the loudest. I tried to avoid silence at all costs, so much so that I would constantly numb and distract myself to avoid it. When I walked on the street […]Read More Silence Isn’t Empty It’s Full Of Answers
Before walking this path I did everything I could to not feel. Whatever it took, I just didn’t want to feel anything, good or bad. I had spent my life trying to hide and stuff down my feelings, to pretend that everything was OK, even when things very much weren’t, and I had done such […]Read More Feelings Can’t Kill You, But Avoiding Them Can
Good morning SLAYER! Every time you judge someone you reveal a part of yourself that needs healing. New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!Read More Slay Say
Before walking this path I spent a lot of my time pointing out the faults of others. I figured I knew how to fix everyone else’s lives, even though mine was falling a part, and like a runaway train heading toward a tunnel of death. But to talk to me, I know better. You were […]Read More Blame-Saying Is Game-Playing
Good morning SLAYER! Feelings are like waves, they come and go, and you get decide which ones to surf. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then…SLAY on!Read More Slay Say
I used a lot of things to hide my feelings, to numb them, or to distract myself from feeling what I was feeling. I would even go so far as to do things that would make me feel sick purposely to distract myself from feelings I didn’t’ want to have. I harmed myself. Anything I […]Read More What Are You Craving? What Are You Trying To Hide?
Good morning SLAYER! What we find disturbing in other people is often what we dislike about ourselves. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then…SLAY on!Read More Slay Say
I never would have said that I was a people-pleaser before stepping on this path, but looking back I was, not in every way, but I definitely identify with some of the behaviors. I think we all can be at times. We all want to be liked. We want to make people happy. We want […]Read More Are You A People-Pleaser?