Silence Isn’t Empty It’s Full Of Answers

When I was sick I was afraid of silence. Silence for me back then was anything but silent, when things were quiet my head was the loudest. I tried to avoid silence at all costs, so much so that I would constantly numb and distract myself to avoid it. When I walked on the street […]

Feelings Can’t Kill You, But Avoiding Them Can

Before walking this path I did everything I could to not feel. Whatever it took, I just didn’t want to feel anything, good or bad. I had spent my life trying to hide and stuff down my feelings, to pretend that everything was OK, even when things very much weren’t, and I had done such […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Every time you judge someone you reveal a part of yourself that needs healing. New blog goes up Sunday, until then…SLAY on!

Blame-Saying Is Game-Playing

Before walking this path I spent a lot of my time pointing out the faults of others. I figured I knew how to fix everyone else’s lives, even though mine was falling a part, and like a runaway train heading toward a tunnel of death. But to talk to me, I know better. You were […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! Feelings are like waves, they come and go, and you get decide which ones to surf. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then…SLAY on!

What Are You Craving? What Are You Trying To Hide?

I used a lot of things to hide my feelings, to numb them, or to distract myself from feeling what I was feeling. I would even go so far as to do things that would make me feel sick purposely to distract myself from feelings I didn’t’ want to have. I harmed myself. Anything I […]

Slay Say

Good morning SLAYER! What we find disturbing in other people is often what we dislike about ourselves. New blog goes up Tuesday, until then…SLAY on!

Are You A People-Pleaser?

I never would have said that I was a people-pleaser before stepping on this path, but looking back I was, not in every way, but I definitely identify with some of the behaviors. I think we all can be at times. We all want to be liked. We want to make people happy. We want […]