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Intercept Anxiety with Gratitude

Anxiety used to hit me fast.

Sometimes without warning.
Sometimes without a clear reason.
Sometimes before I even realized what I was thinking.

My body would react before my mind could catch up. Tight chest. Racing thoughts. A sense that something was wrong even when nothing actually was.

For a long time, I tried to fight anxiety head-on. I tried to reason with it. Silence it. Control it. Push it away.

What I learned is this: anxiety does not respond well to force.

But it does respond to redirection.

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How I Learned to Interrupt the Spiral

Anxiety feeds on anticipation.

What if this goes wrong?
What if I fail?
What if I cannot handle it?
What if something bad happens?

Once that loop starts, it gains momentum quickly.

I needed a way to interrupt it before it took over.

That is when I began practicing gratitude. Not as a cure. Not as denial. But as an intercept.

Gratitude gave my mind something else to focus on before anxiety could run the show.

Gratitude Does Not Deny Reality

Let me be clear. Gratitude does not mean pretending everything is fine.

It does not mean ignoring pain.
It does not mean minimizing fear.
It does not mean forcing positivity.

For me, gratitude became a grounding tool. A way to come back into the present moment.

Anxiety lives in the future.
Gratitude lives in the now.

When I name what I am grateful for, my body settles. My breath slows. My nervous system gets a signal that I am safe in this moment.

What This Looks Like in Real Life

When anxiety starts to rise, I pause and ask myself one simple question.

What is real and good right now

Sometimes it is something small.
A warm cup of tea.
A quiet room.
My breath.
My dog at my feet.

Sometimes it is bigger.
My health.
My support system.
The fact that I have survived harder moments than this one.

I do not wait until anxiety is overwhelming. I intercept it early.

That is the key.

Why Gratitude Works When Anxiety Is Loud

Gratitude shifts attention without resistance.

Instead of arguing with anxious thoughts, I redirect my focus. Instead of feeding fear, I feed awareness.

Gratitude reminds my body that I am not in danger right now. That I am here. That I am supported. That I am capable.

It does not erase anxiety.
But it softens its grip.

And that is often enough.

This Is a Practice Not a Perfection

I do not do this perfectly.

There are days anxiety still wins.
There are moments I forget to pause.
There are times I spiral before I remember I have tools.

But I practice anyway.

Each time I intercept anxiety with gratitude, I build trust with myself. I remind my nervous system that I can respond instead of react.

That matters.

Choosing Presence Over Panic

Anxiety will always try to pull you out of the moment.

Gratitude brings you back.

Back to what is real.
Back to what is steady.
Back to what you can handle.

It does not fix everything.
But it creates space.

And sometimes space is all you need to breathe again.

SLAY Reflection

Let us reflect SLAYER:

S: When does anxiety tend to show up for you?
L: What thoughts usually trigger it?
A: What are three things you can name when anxiety starts rising?
Y: How might your day shift if you intercepted anxiety early instead of fighting it?

Call to Action: Join the Conversation

I would love to hear from you.
What is one thing you are grateful for right now that helps you feel grounded?
Share your story in the comments. Let us cheer each other on.

And if you know someone who struggles with anxiety, send this to them.
Sometimes all we need is a reminder that we have tools.

Tell Your Brain the Kind of Day You’re Going to Have

Have you ever noticed how your mornings set the tone for everything that follows? The moment you wake up, before your feet even hit the floor, your brain is already scanning for cues about what kind of day it’s going to be. And here’s the truth: what you tell your brain, your brain will look for.

That means if you wake up thinking, Ugh, this is going to be a hard day, your brain will search for every piece of evidence to confirm it. If you start the day with, I’m choosing peace today, your brain will find moments to validate that choice.

Your mindset is like a compass—point it in one direction, and your day will naturally start aligning with it. The question is, are you pointing it toward chaos or calm? Toward frustration or gratitude? Toward fear or courage?

Your Brain Believes What You Feed It

Here’s what’s fascinating: our brains are designed with something called the reticular activating system (RAS). It acts like a filter, deciding what gets your attention. When you tell your brain to focus on something—whether consciously or unconsciously—it scans your environment to find it.

Think of it like when you buy a new car, and suddenly you start seeing that same make and model everywhere. It’s not that the cars weren’t there before—it’s that your brain is now wired to notice them.

Your thoughts work the same way.

If you tell yourself, This meeting is going to be a disaster, your brain will notice every sigh, every side-eye, and every awkward silence. If you tell yourself, I can handle this with grace, your brain will pick up on the support, the nods, the opportunities to speak with confidence.

This is why starting your day with intentional thoughts is so powerful. Your brain is always listening.

The Power of Morning Scripts

The way you script your morning can shift everything. Here are some examples:

  • Instead of: Today’s going to be so stressful.
    Try: Today I’m choosing peace, no matter what comes my way.
  • Instead of: I’m so tired, this day is going to drag.
    Try: I have enough energy to handle what matters most today.
  • Instead of: Nobody respects me at work.
    Try: I respect myself, and I show up in a way that earns respect.

These aren’t empty affirmations. They are instructions for your brain. And when your brain has instructions, it follows them.

Frustration, Stress, and the Choice We Overlook

Life is going to throw things at you—that’s not optional. Someone cuts you off in traffic, a coworker sends a passive-aggressive email, your plans get derailed.

But here’s the key: those external things don’t decide the quality of your day. You do.

The outside world can invite you to be upset, but you are the one who accepts or declines that invitation.

When you catch yourself spiraling into negativity, pause and ask:
What did I just tell my brain about this moment? Did I tell it to look for the worst, or did I give it something else to notice?

It’s in those pauses that power lives.

Rewiring Takes Practice

If you’ve spent years waking up dreading the day or rehearsing worst-case scenarios, it’s going to take practice to redirect that thought pattern. And that’s okay.

Every time you catch yourself choosing the old script—This is going to be awful—and instead replace it with a new one—I’ve handled worse, and I will handle this too—you are literally rewiring your brain.

The more you do it, the easier it gets. Eventually, your default setting changes. Instead of your brain scanning for stress, it starts scanning for strength. Instead of looking for failure, it starts looking for possibility.

Tell Your Brain Where to Go

Think of your brain like a GPS. If you program it with the wrong address, you’ll end up somewhere you don’t want to be. But when you give it the right directions, it will get you closer to where you want to go.

So before you argue with someone, before you step into that meeting, before you check your email—set the address.

Tell your brain:

  • I’m going to stay calm.
  • I’m going to choose compassion.
  • I’m going to focus on solutions, not problems.

And watch how your day reroutes to align with it.

SLAY Reflection

  1. What’s the first thought you usually have when you wake up? Does it serve you or sabotage you?
  2. How often do you give your brain negative instructions without realizing it?
  3. What would it feel like to intentionally start your day with a thought that empowers you?
  4. When was the last time you caught yourself spiraling, and what did you do to redirect it?
  5. What’s one phrase you can start telling yourself tomorrow morning to shift your entire day?

S – Script your mornings with intentional thoughts
L – Let your brain look for evidence that supports your peace
A – Align your mindset with the day you want to create
Y – Yield to positivity and refuse to accept the invitation to chaos

Call to Action: Join the Conversation

I’d love to hear from you.
What’s the phrase you tell yourself that shifts the entire direction of your day?
Share your story in the comments. Let’s cheer each other on.

And if you know someone who’s stuck in negative loops, send this to them.
Sometimes, all we need is a reminder that our brains believe what we tell them.