Before walking this path, I thought I knew everything—or at least better than most. I saw the world through judgmental eyes, convinced that everyone else was doing it wrong. It was easier to judge than to look inward, easier to point fingers than to take responsibility. My ego told me I was smarter, better, but deep down, I was just trying to cover the emptiness I felt inside—the fear that I wasn’t enough.

That judgment kept me blind. It limited what I was willing to see and locked me into a narrow, self-protective perspective.

Choosing Teachability Over Ego

I’ve shared before that it’s vital for me to stay teachable. It took a long time—and a lot of pain—for me to admit that I don’t know everything, that my stubbornness and ego hurt me more than anyone else ever could. Staying open-minded isn’t just a nice idea; it’s essential for my growth and healing.

When I close myself off, I shut down new ideas, new perspectives, and the chance to improve. This path of recovery and growth doesn’t end with a graduation or certificate. It’s a lifelong journey of becoming, of learning, and of serving.

Being of service means setting aside ego. It means being open to seeing things as they are, not just as I want them to be. When I was stuck in my old patterns, I didn’t care about helping others unless it benefited me. But recovery taught me that my growth and healing are deeply tied to my ability to support and lift others up.

Seeing Beyond Our Own Perspective

We all come from different places, with different life experiences. It’s natural to have a perspective shaped by our journey, but if we only see the world through our own lens, we miss the full picture.

When we stay stuck in our assumptions—what we think we know—we stunt our growth. But when we leave space for discovery, for the possibility that we might not know everything, we create room for connection, understanding, and freedom.

That space in between? It’s where transformation happens.

SLAY OF THE DAY

Do you usually assume you know the truth without investigating?
How has that approach worked—or not worked—for you?
Think of a time when you discovered the reality wasn’t what you thought. What did you learn?
Are you open to continuing to learn from others, even when it’s uncomfortable?
How do you feel when others make false assumptions about you? Remember, it feels the same when we do it to others.
Leave space to grow. Leave space to see.

Call to Action: Join the Conversation

I’d love to hear from you.
How do you keep yourself open to learning and growth? What helps you shift from judgment to curiosity?
Share your thoughts in the comments and let’s lift each other up.
And if you know someone who could use this message, share it with them. Together, we can break free from assumptions and open our eyes to new possibilities.