We all have dreams—visions of a life we haven’t yet lived, of goals we haven’t yet reached. And yet, when reality feels limiting, we often shrink those dreams down to match it. We tell ourselves we’ll never get there, that we don’t have what it takes, that maybe we’re asking for too much.

But where you are now doesn’t dictate where you can go. That’s not how dreams work. They’re meant to stretch us. To pull us forward. To show us what’s possible.

The Power of Just Starting

Before I began walking this path, I talked myself out of every dream I had. I didn’t believe I was smart enough, capable enough, or worthy of the life I secretly longed for. I let fear stop me before I ever began. And when I did take a step, the first bit of resistance sent me retreating back to the safety of “what I know.”

But staying stuck didn’t make me feel safe—it made me feel miserable.

When I finally reached out for help, I set a goal: to save my own life. That was the first dream I dared to believe in again. And with every small step forward, I began to believe in more. I discovered new passions, found confidence in places I didn’t know existed, and most importantly, I learned that I didn’t need to know every step before I began.

Dreams grow as we grow.

I was told to start with what I had, do the work, and trust that the next right step would appear—and it did. Over and over again. Sometimes I found myself on a different path than I expected, but each detour brought something unexpected and beautiful. That’s the power of saying yes.

Faith, Footwork, and Forward Motion

I’ve accomplished things I once believed were impossible. And I know now that my reality didn’t change because I waited until I was ready. It changed because I started anyway.

You don’t need the perfect plan. You just need a spark of belief and the courage to begin.

When you commit to your growth, when you honor your dreams by taking action—even small steps—you become a magnet for what’s meant for you. The people, opportunities, and resources you need will show up. That’s not just faith. That’s evidence.

Don’t let your current situation trick you into believing it’s permanent. You are allowed to want more. To dream bigger. To build something entirely new.

Let your heart lead you. Trust the pull.

SLAY on.

SLAY Reflection: Are You Shrinking Your Dreams?

• Do you find yourself downplaying your dreams to make them feel more realistic?
• What would you pursue if you believed it was truly possible?
• Have you ever taken a leap before? What did it teach you?
• Who could you talk to or ask for support to help you take the next step?
• What’s one small action you could take today that brings your dream closer?

Call to Action: Join the Conversation

I’d love to hear from you.
What’s one dream you’re ready to honor—no matter where you are right now?
Share your story in the comments. Let’s cheer each other on.

And if you know someone who’s holding back on their dreams, send this to them.
Sometimes, all we need is permission to start anyway.